Everyone remember the guy who didn’t want a relationship?
I made a post or few.... about a lad I really liked and was dating everything was amazing then two days after our last date he phoned me and said he wasn’t ready for a relationship... and that if the timing was different he’d make me his girlfriend... and I’d done nothing wrong, and the affection was missing. In fact he said A LOT of conflicting things and it messed with my head a lot. I wondered why he’d done this etc. What I’d done wrong?
I tried to get him back by messaging not all the time but I poured my heart out he said the affection was missing... whatever that means when he didn’t even try anything on.
Maybe he just didn’t like me? I left it and I posted on social media so he could see show him I was doing alright, the hurt disappeared and I started missing him so I was about to message to see how he was and noticed he’d blocked me off everything.... I was gutted. My friend checked to see if he was still there or if he’d deleted it all. And there he was with another girl. He never ever posted pictures of us but with this new girl he would?
I text him, mad and upset and already wanting answers. I said you might as well explain why you lied. He said he was hurt I called him a liar. I asked him why he’d blocked me... he said ‘so you didn’t see what I posted and so you didn’t have a constant reminder of me cause the truth is I’ve found someone else’ I said so you weren’t ready for a relationship with me but you are with this new girl? He said ‘I’m not in a relationship with her’ I said why didn’t you just tell me I wasn’t good enough. He said ‘you were good enough, but the affection was missing for me’ I said so you don’t like me, and he wouldn’t answer so I said what I had to and blocked him.
The fact is I now feel I can move on. But why he wouldn’t just tell me he’d found better or that I don’t know. Why say you aren’t ready then suddenly get with a new girl and plaster her everywhere ? 10 days after he left me I saw he was tagging her in things etc.
Yet he’s blocked me so I can’t see? So does he care ? Was he seeing her while he saw me?! Why did he treat me like a princess and never try it on if he wasn’t genuine ? Then drop me for a downgrade ? He meant an awful lot to me and I did an awful lot for him and this is how I’m treated. Uh men!
Has this ever happened to you?