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Is it normal to spend every second of every day with my girlfriend? We both don't have jobs. Lol we have a select few friends, I'm talking shower together poop with doors open walk around naked and we never fight, only on rare occasions and it's over dumb stuff we been together for 3 1/2 years now is that normal????
Me and my husband are married almost 14 years, we are together all the time, and we never wear clothes at home or close doors, we do not have our "own friends", if we socialize with others, we do it together. We also live under a common pot system where all money is pooled regardless of who earns it. We basically exist as the same person.
I've been working with my boyfriend for nearly two years and we also enjoy spending most of our time together. There have been days in wich we've only separared for a few minutes (to go to the bathroom, incidentally) and it's amazing how we enjoy all that time.
But lately I've noticed that it hasn't been healthy. For us as individuals and the relationship itself, we both need to have separate, meaningful lifes. I'm starting a new job and really looking forward to socializing with other people. I know it will make my own life more rich and it will reflect in the relationship.
So, i would recommend that you consider having both your own hobbies, jobs or friends.
I think it's fine if it's not negatively impacting your life however when you mention the part about both being jobless . I feel like it might be ? Make sure it's truly the healthiest choices for you both before continuing spending so much time together . You need an occupation and lives too , don't forget that .. it will make you appreciate each other more so don't feel scared to spend time apart .