I have a friend that, at the age of two, cried whenever given anything with the smallest ruffle to wear. Who in first grade, told a girl her name was John and kissed her on the cheek. She wore only guy clothes from about 7 and has had short hair forever. In home videos she walked around shirtless with shorts and enunciated in a boyish way. She played with GI Joe and Power Rangers.
Her mother always knew she should have been a he. She would cry at night wondering why, if there was a god, god would put a boy in the body of a girl. She was very accepting, a great mother indeed.
Today my friend is a man. He is a great man at that. He is a very dear friend of mine. No, his name isn't John. :)
You have to be you. If your parents won't accept you, you don't have to accept them. You are their child. It really says something about a parent who won't love you unconditionally. Whether you are their son or daughter shouldn't make a difference. You are you regardless of what they want you to be.
thanks for the comment it is very inspirational. I do hear what your saying about my parents... they are very old school and anything the slightest bit "strange" is wrong and down right heresy in their eyes. I hope one day i can be as strong as your friend.
Ever since i was a little boy i knew i was born the wrong gender
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I have a friend that, at the age of two, cried whenever given anything with the smallest ruffle to wear. Who in first grade, told a girl her name was John and kissed her on the cheek. She wore only guy clothes from about 7 and has had short hair forever. In home videos she walked around shirtless with shorts and enunciated in a boyish way. She played with GI Joe and Power Rangers.
Her mother always knew she should have been a he. She would cry at night wondering why, if there was a god, god would put a boy in the body of a girl. She was very accepting, a great mother indeed.
Today my friend is a man. He is a great man at that. He is a very dear friend of mine. No, his name isn't John. :)
You have to be you. If your parents won't accept you, you don't have to accept them. You are their child. It really says something about a parent who won't love you unconditionally. Whether you are their son or daughter shouldn't make a difference. You are you regardless of what they want you to be.
Good luck! Hope you do what feels right!
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thanks for the comment it is very inspirational. I do hear what your saying about my parents... they are very old school and anything the slightest bit "strange" is wrong and down right heresy in their eyes. I hope one day i can be as strong as your friend.
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That being the case, do they know you cross dress? Does your girlfriend?
I'm glad your friend has supportive people in his life:)
Sweet, totally cute, inspiring story.