That must be a difficult situation, I am sorry to hear you are going thru this. If you feel like crap as a guy and are convinced you need to be a woman I would first see a therapist. Not because you're are insane but it could help you to realize some stuff you didn't now about yourself and become more confident in you as a lady. As for you family and gf, one day you will have to tell 'em. Nothing is worse then faking who you are: hiding in plain sight. Of course approaching them the right way will help. Stressing the fact that this is the way you are, you didn't choose to be like this its just biology: chemicals in your brain.
I hope that helps. Get back to me and tell me how things go
I hope i will be able to come out to them in the future. I am my dads only son in a family of 4 children. So being the only male he has had high hopes and ambitions for me. I don't want to disappoint them though i do feel if they loved me unconditionally they would accept me. Frankly i don't think they would ever support that side of me. It is heartbreaking but you cannot teach old dogs new tricks i guess. I just have to wait till i am emotionally ready to suffer the heartbreak this might cause me. Thanks so much for the good wishes and the support :)
Ever since i was a little boy i knew i was born the wrong gender
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That must be a difficult situation, I am sorry to hear you are going thru this. If you feel like crap as a guy and are convinced you need to be a woman I would first see a therapist. Not because you're are insane but it could help you to realize some stuff you didn't now about yourself and become more confident in you as a lady. As for you family and gf, one day you will have to tell 'em. Nothing is worse then faking who you are: hiding in plain sight. Of course approaching them the right way will help. Stressing the fact that this is the way you are, you didn't choose to be like this its just biology: chemicals in your brain.
I hope that helps. Get back to me and tell me how things go
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I hope i will be able to come out to them in the future. I am my dads only son in a family of 4 children. So being the only male he has had high hopes and ambitions for me. I don't want to disappoint them though i do feel if they loved me unconditionally they would accept me. Frankly i don't think they would ever support that side of me. It is heartbreaking but you cannot teach old dogs new tricks i guess. I just have to wait till i am emotionally ready to suffer the heartbreak this might cause me. Thanks so much for the good wishes and the support :)