Enjoy giving pleasure, but not getting it? inn?

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Well, I'll cut to the chase. I'm a girl and I enjoy giving sexual pleasure to my partner, but I don't really care about getting anything in return. Like, I don't mind if they don't return the favor, really.

It's not that I don't like to be in pleasure (I masturbate often.) It's just that, um, it makes me feel awkward when they do it.

Is this normal?

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  • Fleetline
    8 years ago | pl

    I have a sililar problem in that while I love to pleasure a woman Im afraid of her getting to intimate with me for fear of being rejected for some reason.

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago | pl

    Is it the awkwardness of having someone there while ur getting off? That's odd. Even when they're the one doing it? I get it if he is pleasuring u orally or fingering u or something, it's kind of impersonal. But when he is inside u and had his body against ur and mouth against urs, you feel 'awkward'? Maybe u should just get more comfortable by exposure. Just walk around naked as often as u can, just sit there and let him stare at u and soak u in. Every angle. Every curve. Every scar. Being comfortable with ur sexual partner is important.

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  • Lariii
    8 years ago | pl

    I'm guessing maybe you don't feel that stimulated, so you don't really want to receive pleasure.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago | pl

    I think you should relax and enjoy the ride so to speak, it is nice to want to give pleasure but one must be able to lie back and receive pleasure as well...maybe your partner/s have not been good at what they do? Come over, I am sure I could be of assistance

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