Eeeeeeek.

My too be husband and I are seriously best friends. We have one of the healthiest, happiest relationships I have ever witnessed. I WANT to be with him forever. And I am aware that we are really lucky to have this.

Enter my very good friend. We'll call him G. G and me have been through a lot. We had a short little tryst a couple years ago. My fiance wouldn't have been upset or jealous expcept that G and he are also very good friends. G then had a short little tryst with my sister, which just well...it wasn't positive and it changed the dynamics of all relationships involved here. I saw him this past weekend and we had an amazing time. Just the two of us. It was like we just slipped right back into where we left off. We finally talked about the things that had happened in the past, aired out our feelings. It was really great. He then told me that he has feelings for me...now I know I am NOT in love with G, but I just can't stop thinking about him. Is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • g spot of trouble

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  • is he a drug dealer? is that why you called him G and thats it? YOU DO DRUGS YOU DO DRUGS YOU DO DRUGS HA HA HA HA HAAAA

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  • You're probably just focused on the fact G has feelings for you. I mean everyone likes to be adored don't they. So long as you don't desire to be with G, everything is fine and normal

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  • yes i would say it is because this person has just told you something that could change your life!! if you deffo know that u are not in love with them, then you have nothing to worry about! it could just be the shock of it, that keeps bringing this person into your mind, or the fact that there is another person who loves you, and all of a sudden theres more options. but seriously id say its completely normal, and you should stop worrying over this matter and still stay good friends with this person!!

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  • sounds very complicated.

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  • normal yes but you seem smart enough to know a good thing when you've got it.. unless another fling is what you really want

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