people on here can be saying feel greatful of what you hve, becasue others may have it worse.
All well and said, it isnt as easy as that. At the end of the day it is your life that you have to live just as the others is to live theirs. we will have to deal with the situations that we are faced with and noone else. feeling as though you need to accept the 'misfortunes' (more likely the shitty way you are feeling) just becasue other may have it worse, in the end will only encourage feelings of guilt. you are responsible for you own life, good or bad and need to deal with whatever problems you have and are faced with.
From similar exprience and over the duration of 2 1.2 yrs, it has been pointed out by various people that i have been subject to mental abuse. This can be inflicted apon you by the closest of people, i.e your family AND NOTE this can be done unintentionally by them. I feel this may also be the case for you, i don't know. For me, i knew about mental abuse but i never really connected the dots for myself, rather after a living for years in a 'dampened' household i looked to blaming myself, i couldn't find a reason for it. I am new this 'discovery' i guess you could say and am attempting to 'heal' myself - its lead to many problems for me. Thats why i commented, i can relate to what you have said. The way my home life is making me feel has run through into my everyday life, even when i escapeit and socialize with normal people that respect me and don't put me down. It was my 'refuge' i guess you could say, untill now i just feel so shit all the time and have no faith in myself, i withdraw more and more socially becasue i am embarrased of myself - inside and out. I hope htis isnt that case for you, please don't take my comment as a 'diagnosis' (of you) becasue i don't know you. Im just sharing i guess?
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people on here can be saying feel greatful of what you hve, becasue others may have it worse.
All well and said, it isnt as easy as that. At the end of the day it is your life that you have to live just as the others is to live theirs. we will have to deal with the situations that we are faced with and noone else. feeling as though you need to accept the 'misfortunes' (more likely the shitty way you are feeling) just becasue other may have it worse, in the end will only encourage feelings of guilt. you are responsible for you own life, good or bad and need to deal with whatever problems you have and are faced with.
From similar exprience and over the duration of 2 1.2 yrs, it has been pointed out by various people that i have been subject to mental abuse. This can be inflicted apon you by the closest of people, i.e your family AND NOTE this can be done unintentionally by them. I feel this may also be the case for you, i don't know. For me, i knew about mental abuse but i never really connected the dots for myself, rather after a living for years in a 'dampened' household i looked to blaming myself, i couldn't find a reason for it. I am new this 'discovery' i guess you could say and am attempting to 'heal' myself - its lead to many problems for me. Thats why i commented, i can relate to what you have said. The way my home life is making me feel has run through into my everyday life, even when i escapeit and socialize with normal people that respect me and don't put me down. It was my 'refuge' i guess you could say, untill now i just feel so shit all the time and have no faith in myself, i withdraw more and more socially becasue i am embarrased of myself - inside and out. I hope htis isnt that case for you, please don't take my comment as a 'diagnosis' (of you) becasue i don't know you. Im just sharing i guess?