Quite frankly, it pisses me off to hear people instantly write off having three or more kids as immoral. I know many families that have three or more kids and that are very happy and loving. About as many as I know households with one or two children in which the family is miserable.
I WILL say this. If the parent(s) can foster a happy, healthy environment for the children and can reasonably support them (oh boo hoo hand me downs, I shop at the thrift store even when I can afford new clothes. Materialism isn't God.) Then they have every right and reason to have as many as they want. Yes. Have. Don't give me that double standard of a woman can choose abortion but having children is a personal choice that she should be crucified for. If a Mother can't Mother a child that isn't hers and wishes to have her own and can support them, it's her damned business and his too.
The people we should be focusing on, as a society, are the people who produce children they can't feed. I know women who have three kids who threw them all into state or church custody. They're the assholes, here. It's not the job of loving families to pay penance for the idiocies of indiscriminate breeders. Give them the room and acceptance to build our society and who knows, maybe they will breed these jackass out the gene pool.
Duggars and other Large Families. How do they make you feel?
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It depends on the family.
Quite frankly, it pisses me off to hear people instantly write off having three or more kids as immoral. I know many families that have three or more kids and that are very happy and loving. About as many as I know households with one or two children in which the family is miserable.
I WILL say this. If the parent(s) can foster a happy, healthy environment for the children and can reasonably support them (oh boo hoo hand me downs, I shop at the thrift store even when I can afford new clothes. Materialism isn't God.) Then they have every right and reason to have as many as they want. Yes. Have. Don't give me that double standard of a woman can choose abortion but having children is a personal choice that she should be crucified for. If a Mother can't Mother a child that isn't hers and wishes to have her own and can support them, it's her damned business and his too.
The people we should be focusing on, as a society, are the people who produce children they can't feed. I know women who have three kids who threw them all into state or church custody. They're the assholes, here. It's not the job of loving families to pay penance for the idiocies of indiscriminate breeders. Give them the room and acceptance to build our society and who knows, maybe they will breed these jackass out the gene pool.
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Right on, dude.
I agree with Neuros statement here.