Don't want a relationship w my crush, i'm just content to see her happy

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She is the most wonderful person and I feel that I'm not only unworthy, but that I will hurt her if I enter a relationship with her. I feel satisfied just being in her company, talking to her, making her laugh, doing things that make her happy. Her smile is good enough for me - and I'd never dream of taking it away from her by being too deeply involved in her life.

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Based on 38 votes (29 yes)
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  • thepuppet
    5 years ago

    I’d say it’s normal, but you should learn to take that risk- the rewards can be extremely fulfulling. If you CAN enter a relationship with her, then keep that option in mind.

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  • mauzi
    5 years ago

    well thats awesome

    EDIT: wtf is with all the triggered fags in this post crying "cuck", "beta", "friendzone" lmao, you guys sound insecure as fuck, projecting so hard.

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    and watch her go with a guy who is 10x worse than you?

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    You sound extremely insightful. I have met women who's physical attractiveness drove me nuts. But, their personality was so weird, even neurotic, that I knew any relationship would self destruct with megaton force. So, I did what you are doing. I said things to make her bring out the best in herself. Her smile was beautiful. I was happy to lift her spirits, and nothing more.

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  • LloydAsher
    5 years ago

    So you are a cuckhold? That’s fine for the Internet.

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  • Lestat565
    5 years ago

    I got to agree with ToughLuckKid it’s not cute at all. It’s stupid. Your also full of shit if you think your doing her a favor by not getting involved. Your not doing it for her your doing it for yourself. And it’s cowardly.

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    • mauzi
      5 years ago

      Dude chill the fuk out, you're making a lot of assumptions here. Just because a girl did this to you in the past and you're still upset about not getting laid, doesn't mean it's the same situation.

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      • Lestat565
        5 years ago

        Your assuming that she’s leading him on and he didn’t say that. If he did I’d say that’s wrong and she’s not worth it at all. I also don’t agree that he’s leading her on. Could that be happening of course but there’s not enough information for that conclusion. So in short don’t talk shit to me without understanding shit

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        • mauzi
          5 years ago

          I never assumed she's leading him on dummy, you're the one who brought it up.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Yeah basically, it’s almost like leading her on and there’s nothing cute about that.

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      • mauzi
        5 years ago

        So anytime you have a female friend that's just a lesbian leading you on? (Assuming you're a girl since you write like one)

        This guy also says "I will hurt her if I enter a relationship with her" he very well could be asexual or have some personality disorder. At least he's self-aware and not forcing a relationship that would likely be abusive or unfulfilling.

        I'm sure she can leave or find an actual BF if she wants to. It's called friendship.

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  • Ummitsstillme
    5 years ago

    Congrats, you have positionsed yourself into the role of perma pussy. Man up, gain some confidence, fake it till you make it and go after her. Throw a hail mary. Many of mooks m as rry their hs sweethearts with a bit of confidence. Dont live your life wondering, "what if"

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Your point???

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      That this is super cute?

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        It’s not that cute actually

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          To each their own.

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      • IrishPotato
        5 years ago

        It's not cute. It's fucking retarded.

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          Maybe OP is more self-aware than most, though. When people enter a close relationship, they each have to deal with the other's baggage.

          I think it's very sweet of OP to be more concerned with their crush's happiness then their own feelings. That kind of selflessness seems to me like the most innocent of love.

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  • Maniac_Squid
    5 years ago

    Totally normal, but take a risk. If you just don't feel ready for a relationship, then it isn't worth it, but you can't let the "What ifs" get in the way of you giving it a chance.

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