Don' t touch me

In general,I don't like it when people touch me, especially people who I haven't known for at least 10 years. It makes me feel really uncomfortable, even if it's just a hug and an accidental nudge. On the other hand, I enjoy the occasional bear hug. As a baby, my mother says that I would cry if she wasn't holding me. Okay wait I think I have discovered the real problem: I FEAR ANY AND ALL TYPES OF INTIMACY. Even when my parents tell me that they love me, I just want to walk away and be alone. It makes me blush and sometimes my heart starts beating really hard. I panic. What is going on here?

Is It Normal?
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  • Not normal. Did something happen to U during Ur childhood?

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  • It's normal to me like when people touch my neck I hit them or something like that. I Do it because I feel that someone is going to give me a pressure point or choke me. When I was little I had a prob with my sister's because they would always and I mean always give me pressure points just because I was the youngest sibling. It was. So retarded

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  • Nope

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  • Yeahh that's normal. and its like so awkward when i get hugs I'm not a good hugger either!

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  • Were you molested when you were younger?

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  • That's a bit much. I'm sort of the same way only, I only let the people I date get intimate with me. Like hugging and stuff. Don't get me wrong I will hug my family but I don't like friends or people I don't know touching me or hugging me.

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  • That sounds really depressing.

    Maybe you are somewhat insecure as well?

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  • i am just like u dear...its perfectly normal

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  • it may be normal, it depends. do you like a lot of space? u might just like when u r alone and feel free from crowds.

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