Does you wife or girlfriend ever do this while she sleeps ??

My wife and I have been together for many years and are very open and trusting with each other. We share ideas, no jealousy, and my wife is much more sexually experienced than I am.

For several years now, after my wife is asleep; many nights she goes through body motions that simulate like she is having intercourse. The leg motions are a rhythm just like you'd be having intercourse, thrusts that are subtle and then a break, 3 or 4 more then a break type pattern. At some point the rhythm escalates to 3 or 4 hard thrusts and a break and that is usually repeated just 2 or 3 times with the hard thrusts then she is very still.

I know a few weeks ago this pattern occurred again, it usually wakes me up as the bed vibrations occur. This time she moaned very loudly almost to a small shriek and stopped.

A few days later she said her leg was wet when I told her about it. Is she fantasizing and having intercourse like in a dream state ?? Thank you for your comments.

By the way; for several months now I agreed to let her have a lover where they have hours of very intense sex as I no longer can medically. This pattern happened for years before him and since. There is no medical solution and after many many years of no sex with my wife being so frustrated we talked it over on a number of occasions and she agreed and has been receptive but still loves and supports me as her husband. When it happens, etc. I know in advance, so nothing is being done behind my back and his time / her time is accounted for. Its kept discreet.