Does true love exist?

Is "true love" a matter of how many experiences or how much time you have shared with another person? (quantity of love)
(This has to do with the "quantity" of love that one feels)

Or could it be a matter of a particular "chemistry"(particular "quality" of love)
that exists only with one
(or few?)
particular person(s) in one's lifetime?
Now that would be true love!

Make your choice!

No, all love between opposite sexes differs in quantity not quality 28
Yes I'm certain that true love exists. It has a different quality 97
Yes, but I can't tell if it's a matter of "quantity" or "quality", 33
I don't know 42
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Comments ( 27 )
  • babe7575

    There is def. a person for everyone out there, that makes their heart sing.

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  • Jeci_Cassidy

    I have true love in my arms right now. Me and my husband fell in love through the toughest times, He stood by my side when a few of my friends died, He held me when my cousin died :(, He tells me I'm beautiful even though sometimes I know I look shitty (I had Pneumonia and was all hooked up to an IV and he still told me I'm the most beautiful woman in the world. Shit I looked like hell lol). He has always been by my side. We are having our first baby in 8 weeks and boy it seems like he never stops rubbing my belly and talking to our son. He loves me even though we are not the same religion.
    I would not give him up for anything, I would have searched the Earth until the day I died looking for him. We have been through Hell together and still our love remains stronger then ever and growing everyday.

    So yes there is True Love in this world and I can only hope that everyone finds that person meant for them instead of just settling for anyone.

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  • catocato52028

    I do not care if it takes the rest of my life I will find my true love. I feel like im the only person who cares about that in this day in age.

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  • norcalbuddha

    True love exists and you know when you found it when you don't have the need to question his/her love...the love is just there...

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    • Are you talking out of experience?

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  • harrypotterdork22

    love exists. you have no idea how many people have married their true love and are still happily together. personally, its quality. go out with all the people in the world, if it doesn't work out than its not meant to be. i believe in soulmates since ive found mine. everyones different, and frankly this question shuldnt be on isitnormal because love isnt normal. its unique to each individual

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  • BoredGuy

    where is the simple NO?

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  • sleepingbeauty

    I thought that there was something wrong with me, or that true love didn't exist. Although I have been engaged a couple of times, I wouldn't get married because I knew I didn't love them enough.

    Now I am in my 40's and am with the person I intend to stay with for the rest of my life. I am now a believer in true love, I am so glad I found it.

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  • crazykittens

    I don't know anymore. There's this guy I adore and I felt he adored me just the same, but now he's away at university and hasn't spoke to me since.

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  • I think that it does. Although I don't believe in soulmates. I think some people just have a deeper intensity of love, maybe because of the time and place or chemistry x

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  • wxl2

    definitely yes. just the matter of right timing and right person.

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  • moomus

    I think true love is unconditional love. eg, no matter what your partner did you would still love them, like cheating on you. true love is the same kind of love you feel for your kids, no matter what my kids did I would still love them. So if you could forgive your partner anything then thats what i call true love!

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Yes.

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  • SamuraiGallade

    True love... it is when your heart truly beats. It is a fiery burning passion, never fading, never flickering, yet a gentle stream, cool, calm, and refreshing. It makes you want to do anything for them. To just show them all the passion and love your heart holds. It is a pure feeling, void of all lust, that gives your life meaning. Without them, you are devoid of meaning, you have no reason to exist. You want to protect them, hold them close. Your loyalty to each other never wavers, you always wish you were near them.

    Above all, you love them with not just with all your heart, but your entire soul.

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  • XxPsychoBananaxX

    I do not believe in it. Period

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  • Flowers

    Can't believe there is true love in this world until I experience it firsthand. I've heard so many stories of once happily married couples divorcing after a few years, and so few stories of true love.

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  • True love takes years to occur if it happens. It doesn't show until time takes people past the phase that sexual attraction and romance dominate the relationship. Those things remain, but secondary to compassion and friendship. I've been married 23 years and we will love each other no matter what the other does.
    I will say that I first experienced absolute, unconditional true love when she gave birth to my oldest child.

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  • Nikitosina

    Love exist. But what the hell is true love? Do you mean people love each other same time? No, that will die quickly. During the real love, one loves other and the other allows to love him...

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  • Mormodes

    Soul Mates are completely bullcrap, you'd have to be naive to think there is 1 person out of the billions on earth that is just right for you.

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  • missycurious1994

    i used to think it was just a made up thing but now i think there is, there is someone there but is up to us to find it

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  • Zing123

    No but you cAn always fall in love with over 5 not at th same time though

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  • Uzzie101

    No, you can fall in love with more than one person. They can both "make your heart sing". It's biological fact, but it doesn't make the emotion and less beautiful or the love unique.

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  • heather49

    I think you shared a lot of time with your parents and you don't want to date them '--

    Obviously the same for others.

    (You could think more about it and realise "chemistry" is just you looking for the characteristics you like. I think you could try to racionalyse more the "love")

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  • techychick101

    Love doesn't exist it's only obsession and that is another way of committing suicide. I believe that when your comfortable with a person you stay with them until they both are bored of each other or one of them is. Or until the other one catches the other one cheating. By the way even in long marriages, I bet you a trillion bucks, that the husband has always cheated, he just never got caught or she kept it to her self or vise versa.

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    • norcalbuddha

      That's really sad, I'm glad you'll never be my partner.

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    • Jeci_Cassidy

      I think you got you heart broken because you picked the wrong person. maybe one day you will find that person meant for you and experience true love with all of it's beauty. One day you will understand that one man's fault does not condemn the entire male population. Same goes for women.

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    • Uzzie101

      Love does exist, techychick101, it's something you can't deny, no more than you can deny people can be "happy" or "sad". :P

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