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When I masturbate in the shower I sometimes play or finger by ass to help me ejactulate harder I also pour shampoo or conditioner on my body and pretend that its cum... and I remember a few years back about a dream I had that I had done the same thing on my bed... I know for a fact that I am attracted to girls but do these actions make me gay... my family doesn't support gays :(
I wouldn't necessarily call them homosexual tendencies. The prostate gland is the male G spot.
anal play doesn't make you gay.
having sex with your own gender exclusively does that.
No that does not make you gay. Long term sexual attraction to members of the same sex and a corresponding lack of interest in members of the opposite sex makes you gay.
Since you are attracted to girls you are not gay. You could be bisexual though. Are you attracted to guys as well? If so, that would make you at least partially bi.
You say your family doesn't approve of gays. I'm sorry to hear that they are so judgmental. If you aren't comfortable talking to them about it, don't. They don't need to know the intimate details of your sex life.
Mmmm that's very interesting. Homosexuality is defined as the physical or emotional attraction to person of same sex. Even if you insert something bigger than your finger you aren't gay because you still don't fit the description.
Sounds like maybe your family situation is confusing you. You don't sound gay to the readers, but your family constantly hating on gays may in some way, make you want to explore this more. I'm not reading that you're gay either, just that you're curious. There are many straight males who have done gay things in the past and aren't gay. I also think you playing with yourself analy is casuing you anxiety. Many people mentally associate that with being gay, when it's really just masturbation. It's a natural response to want to do the opposite of what everyones telling you to do. I was once in a relationship where the person was afraid and always accusing me of cheating. I never did and never have, butt I somehow still felt like a cheater. It's odd, but I really don't think you're gay.
I would disregard the anal stimulation. If you know for a fact you like women and you like to pretend you have cum on you it may be a fetish. Some guys like the thought of spraying cum everywhere. I think it seems like a awful mess but some men like the thought of spraying it and in some cases on females.
I told one of my close friends (female) about the situation and she swore that she wouldnt tell... but i think that she thinks differently about me now...
Despite what some people think, having gay sex doesn't make you gay. What makes you gay, is an admitted attraction (attraction = dating dating = flowers, concerts, walks on the beach, romance, etc.) with other men.
Me and a friend were smoking one day (pot) and I imagined him kissing me... I'm not sure if it was the weed or what
My aunt was criticizing a gay person on the tv and i basicly argued with her that love is simply. Love no matter what race or gender... I live in AR... a lot of people like to judge others here... actually. idk :/ could I just be curious or something... :( I'm not sure because I've litterally been up all night questioning my sexuality...
If... keyword >if< I am bi or gay how would I tell people I know... excluding my family
Idk I question myself sometimes :/ because of this... but I know for sure I'm attracted to girls
Your fantasies are have definite homoerotic tendencies. Girls aren't enough for you?