does the world really care that I have a white girlfriend?

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  • I too, sir, am a bona fide Halfrican%%u2122. And while I have always pleaded objectivity, one might notice that I have a seemingly biased attraction towards white women, given my history. Some say it's because I have a white mother. Some say it's because I grew up in a predominately white environment. Some say it's simply the allure of the pink/medium-brown colored nipple (this is my favorite theory, for the record). But it does not matter why. And the world does not care. Somemight - but the world has other silly things to concern itself with. That fact doesn't matter either, though. What matters is if YOU care if you have white girlfriend. And by the looks of it, you're quite content -- as I am.

    An important skill in life - which many lack - is how to appropriately choose your battles. And this, friend, is not your fight. This one belongs to everyone else who hasn't figured out that race is only an issue if you want it to be, and until then, it doesn't matter. This fight belongs to those who can't get over their own hang-ups. predispositions, personal insecurities and cross values. It's for those who can't yet appreciate that the world is colliding together everywhere whether they approve of it or not.

    Your responsibility is to be happy. It's to let yourself be happy with your lady and leave all others who object to your choice and your life to their own tiny, opinionated little world -- the ONLY place where how THEY feel matters.

    So let them sneer. Let them gossip. Let them curse and condemn you. Let them burn their energy and their life on hatred and contempt. It is not your problem, friend. It is theirs and theirs alone.

    I wish you well. Be happy. And know that the only feelings that matter now is the love you two share for one another. That is, unless you'd like to waste your time trying to please your critics. Good luck, boss.

    //T

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    • I see your profile picture, i can see you are lighter complexion fello from royal oak MI..i actually live some what close there,regardless...I'm curious have you only dated white women or have you dated black women as well?..i can imagine that black women give you alot of attention,african american ladies seem to like decent looking lighter complexion fellos, I receive a decent amount myself. I'm not saying I dis like black women, there are some pretty black women in the world but clearly i'm attracted to white women. Sorry to ramble on the question was just, do you date black women and have you ever experienced them?..I seriously have no idea what thats even like, so i guess i'm just curious

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    • ausome comment, i like the way you think man, i appreciate the feedback.

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