Does the world really care that i have a white girlfriend?

It's not the 1930s anymore every color Fuck each other now the future generation is going to look weird

hey mercedes thanks for the comment..I've had a complete change of heart since I've last toured this forum. With utter confidence and certainty I can say I no longer care. I can't go through life worrying about what people think. I appreciate everyones advice or lack thereof. However at this point I am content with my actions to keep actively dating the love of my life, for the last year we've been extremely happy. Your comments at this point are negligible, however I do appreciate them, and most were positive. I find them insightful and I would like to continue hearing from anyone who would like to share there opinion on the matter.Thanks for the support and help. I love this site!

Nice one discoduck!

This is a great story and I can relate. My girlfriend is white Dutch and I am full Vietnamese. My girlfriend is intelligent, beautiful, and everything I ever wanted. Other asian females are always after me like, "what do you see in that white girl?" Or, "Why are you to shame your parents by being with her? Go with your own kind." Things like that. Or, they will even make comments in Vietnamese or talk about my girlfriend, thinking she doesn't understand. Luckily, my girlfriend is completely fluent in Vietnamese; so she not only understands what they are saying, she talks back to them-- which always shocks the hell out of them! At the same token, white men always ask her why she would want to be with an asian. Then they proceed on with the stereotypes about asian men; our penises, how we are controlling, abusive, workaholics, etc.

Either way, I think this constant abuse by outsiders only brings us closer together. We are able to see and realize those traits that brought us together, and really revel in that. If anything, it has enhanced everything for us. Because we are both hard-headed, people trying to get us apart just makes us want to be together even more. Haha! It sounds like you and your girl have the same unconditional love and respect for each other.

So, just hold your head high and let the outsiders keep guessing what your next move will be. While they are worrying about what you're doing, you keep living life to the fullest. They are the ones missing out.

why should u care what other poeple think of u. its none of there buisness. date who ever u like. (unless they don't want to). (and poeple say i look a bit asian but im blackwell mixt race but yeh)

Dude, it's 2010, you can date whomever you want regardless of race or creed. If anyone got a problem with it then they can just go fuck themselves ya kno. BTW, good luck man!!

I know you aren't, but that makes you look like a playa.

Personally, and most will tend to agree, it doesn't matter what race you or someone you love is. If you love them that's all that matters. Mazal tov and many children to you.

Religiously, the Jewish aspect could be an issue as you might have to convert. The Jewish people tend to be very stubborn on that issue, although historically hit has served them well.

Now, when it comes to genetics and eugenics it's a different matter entirely. From that point of view you should chose a partner that gives your offspring the best chance of survival. This means the smart, strong, and healthy breed with the smart, strong, and healthy. Though some usually take it further than that, saying that some races are inferior to others. While I disagree with this philosophy, it's worth stating that genetically each race is different and uniquely specialized to the environment they adapted to. An example would be that on average African races being better suited to running, and European races being better suited to swimming. This doesn't mean either races is superior, just different. With all this being said it's likely that from a purely pseudo-scientific standpoint such a union would be frowned upon. (Despite the fact pure-bloods are more susceptible to disease and genetic conditions than mutts). Sorry.

Socially opinion may vary. It's pretty much been accepted for thousands of years that one should marry their own kind, except in the cases of alliances or business transactions in which marriage is the legal contract, but in modern society we're taught that race doesn't matter so much as character. Still, old habits die hard and people will still believe to keep it in the nation or clan. Again, sorry.

One final point, a stereotype does exist concerning black Americans and white women... while regrettable that it exists, your relationship with this woman will be conforming to this stereotype. Again, I'm sorry.

Still, regardless of what war-criminal doctors and white-robed republicans think, you both have the right to be happy, and you shouldn't give a damn what anyone else thinks about something that is none of their concern. Best of luck to you.

The world is full of A Holes,don't let their sneers get to you! No matter what you do,what you look like,or where you go,someone is always going to disprove.So just concentrate on making yourself happy!
Really,it's all you can do.

man i know exactly what you mean i myself have a girl of a different "race" yah so what if my girls a white girl i love this girl to death and would do anything for her color doesnt matter the only thing that matters is that YOU like her if she likes you back why should you care what the wourld thinks (i mean everybody does but whatever) its just some people are racist and they dont like it but hey you dont like their shirt are you going to say anything about not likely, so just remember racist people arent cool we should all learn to love each other for who we are not what we look like

Black women give all Black men snide looks. But dont let that be the reason why you date white women. Date them because they are hot, great in bed, better partners, and generally more kind.

Good Luck!

Dude, American Christian people have some problem with interracial dating. This is crude and stupid. You can date who ever the hell you want. It should not bother you. and if anybody has a problem with it, you give them a piece of your mind. Tell them to leave you alone and stop being racist. Nothing gets into Americans' heads than being called racist.... or communist for that matter.

sorry about the typos in the story, i hope you guys still understand it.

i didnt even read the whole thing but it doesnt matter. dont make a point of color and it will not make a point of you.

I too, sir, am a bona fide Halfrican%%u2122. And while I have always pleaded objectivity, one might notice that I have a seemingly biased attraction towards white women, given my history. Some say it's because I have a white mother. Some say it's because I grew up in a predominately white environment. Some say it's simply the allure of the pink/medium-brown colored nipple (this is my favorite theory, for the record). But it does not matter why. And the world does not care. Somemight - but the world has other silly things to concern itself with. That fact doesn't matter either, though. What matters is if YOU care if you have white girlfriend. And by the looks of it, you're quite content -- as I am.

An important skill in life - which many lack - is how to appropriately choose your battles. And this, friend, is not your fight. This one belongs to everyone else who hasn't figured out that race is only an issue if you want it to be, and until then, it doesn't matter. This fight belongs to those who can't get over their own hang-ups. predispositions, personal insecurities and cross values. It's for those who can't yet appreciate that the world is colliding together everywhere whether they approve of it or not.

Your responsibility is to be happy. It's to let yourself be happy with your lady and leave all others who object to your choice and your life to their own tiny, opinionated little world -- the ONLY place where how THEY feel matters.

So let them sneer. Let them gossip. Let them curse and condemn you. Let them burn their energy and their life on hatred and contempt. It is not your problem, friend. It is theirs and theirs alone.

I wish you well. Be happy. And know that the only feelings that matter now is the love you two share for one another. That is, unless you'd like to waste your time trying to please your critics. Good luck, boss.

//T

I think this is beautiful and awesome. Your story made me smile! In answer to your question, yes, people have a problem with it. But those people are ignorant fools and their opinion should mean nothing to you. Let them go ahead and waste their time worrying about you. It's not your problem! You are happy and secure in your relationship and if they really have a problem with that, it just means they must be unhappy. Wish them well, and that one day they might be able to find the peace and love that you have found.

While reading this i wondered "what is the problem?" At he end you said it: race.

Well, also you said in your own background: Irish, Indian, Russion etc.. No one can stick a label on you.

Back to the ugly old race card. Sort of. Even if anyone could, you love her like crazy, as madly as she does you. And your families do too.

Listen chum, not only do you have it ALL going for the both of you, you can also keep turning those racial nitwits heads spinning. Let them spin till they totaly unscrew & fall off.

They are boobs. And you are changing the world & its perception of it for the better, while finding love in it.

You've got it all happening while making it all hapen, and I wish the both of you well.