No, not material (I'm assuming you mean superficial?). I've just been passed over for "someone better" many times. My previous relationship fucked me up pretty bad and it's been a while since I've had something real. I just don't have that faith and yes, it's confusing to him because I feel sincerity on his part, I just have a hard time trusting my own feelings.
I'm sorry. You may need a complete break from men for 6 months or so. Mind games are difficult to recover from, and should never be tolerated. Otherwise, try trusting his feelings instead of yours. If you don't, superficiality awaits.
Does the "nice guy" want ME or am I just the only taker?
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No, not material (I'm assuming you mean superficial?). I've just been passed over for "someone better" many times. My previous relationship fucked me up pretty bad and it's been a while since I've had something real. I just don't have that faith and yes, it's confusing to him because I feel sincerity on his part, I just have a hard time trusting my own feelings.
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I'm sorry. You may need a complete break from men for 6 months or so. Mind games are difficult to recover from, and should never be tolerated. Otherwise, try trusting his feelings instead of yours. If you don't, superficiality awaits.
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Sounds like solid advice. He was my friend to begin with and we didn't just START dating just to start dating, things just kind of developed.