Does the "nice guy" want ME or am I just the only taker?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago | pl

    I did all of that stuff yesterday. Whether or not you were being serious, I can not say.

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    • green_boogers
      8 years ago | pl

      Ok, so you have "faith" problems. This guy has to know that you believe in him. You should be able to feel some kind of acceptance and open mindedness on his part. That will never happen if you are unable to have faith. Don't waste this guy's time.

      You're a material girl.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        8 years ago | pl

        No, not material (I'm assuming you mean superficial?). I've just been passed over for "someone better" many times. My previous relationship fucked me up pretty bad and it's been a while since I've had something real. I just don't have that faith and yes, it's confusing to him because I feel sincerity on his part, I just have a hard time trusting my own feelings.

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        • green_boogers
          8 years ago | pl

          I'm sorry. You may need a complete break from men for 6 months or so. Mind games are difficult to recover from, and should never be tolerated. Otherwise, try trusting his feelings instead of yours. If you don't, superficiality awaits.

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          • Anonymous Post Author
            8 years ago | pl

            Sounds like solid advice. He was my friend to begin with and we didn't just START dating just to start dating, things just kind of developed.

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