The tone of your post is very dangerous. I'm not sure why it is. Do you have so little faith in this guy that you think he would dump you for a beauty queen if she snapped her fingers? This just doesn't make sense.
The ball is in your court here. You need to make him comfortable with your 70% nerdy side. Make him comfortable with your touch, your back rubs, your oral-sexual skills. Be gentle with him. You are holding his heart in your hands.
Ok, so you have "faith" problems. This guy has to know that you believe in him. You should be able to feel some kind of acceptance and open mindedness on his part. That will never happen if you are unable to have faith. Don't waste this guy's time.
No, not material (I'm assuming you mean superficial?). I've just been passed over for "someone better" many times. My previous relationship fucked me up pretty bad and it's been a while since I've had something real. I just don't have that faith and yes, it's confusing to him because I feel sincerity on his part, I just have a hard time trusting my own feelings.
I'm sorry. You may need a complete break from men for 6 months or so. Mind games are difficult to recover from, and should never be tolerated. Otherwise, try trusting his feelings instead of yours. If you don't, superficiality awaits.
Does the "nice guy" want ME or am I just the only taker?
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The tone of your post is very dangerous. I'm not sure why it is. Do you have so little faith in this guy that you think he would dump you for a beauty queen if she snapped her fingers? This just doesn't make sense.
The ball is in your court here. You need to make him comfortable with your 70% nerdy side. Make him comfortable with your touch, your back rubs, your oral-sexual skills. Be gentle with him. You are holding his heart in your hands.
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I did all of that stuff yesterday. Whether or not you were being serious, I can not say.
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Ok, so you have "faith" problems. This guy has to know that you believe in him. You should be able to feel some kind of acceptance and open mindedness on his part. That will never happen if you are unable to have faith. Don't waste this guy's time.
You're a material girl.
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No, not material (I'm assuming you mean superficial?). I've just been passed over for "someone better" many times. My previous relationship fucked me up pretty bad and it's been a while since I've had something real. I just don't have that faith and yes, it's confusing to him because I feel sincerity on his part, I just have a hard time trusting my own feelings.
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I'm sorry. You may need a complete break from men for 6 months or so. Mind games are difficult to recover from, and should never be tolerated. Otherwise, try trusting his feelings instead of yours. If you don't, superficiality awaits.
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Sounds like solid advice. He was my friend to begin with and we didn't just START dating just to start dating, things just kind of developed.