Does the guy like me or is he leading me on?

Met him on a dating site I was ready to give up on, he complimented me straight away, like a gentlemen not like all the others men tried to do.

I added him on another messaging app and we spoke and he asked questions and I did for him we did a short video snap to hear each other. He said he wanted to phone call.
He's said these things to me which I can't stop thinking about 'you're so beautiful it's crazy' 'I'd love to date you' ' the journey will be worth it' 'morning beautiful' 'wow even more reason to get to know you' 'the more I think about you the more attractive you become'
So yeh I have got attached. He's a nutter like me, we click. He also said fingers crossed I open up more the more we getto know each other, I've told him I'm shy.

I haven't started a conversation yet. He sent a snap and I replied yesterday he spoke a bit then stopped, and nothing has been said since, I sent a snap last night but I think he was out with friends so didn't reply to it.

Maybe I'm overthinking. But I kinda want him. And I want to wait to see if he messages first because then I know for sure he's interested.
It's killing me not speaking to him.
How often do you message if you like a girl?

Maybe he's found a better looking girl on the dating website as I'm not good looking myself. When I first start talking to a guy I don't think about it and it doesn't bother me, but when I start to like someone I get like this, overthinking and thinking we should be talking more. If I don't talk he may move on? But I thought that was the mans job.
Should I wait or what?
Please help

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  • pu1se

    you need to respond he might think youre no longer interested. i overthink too. just go for it. you never know what could happen and worst comes to worst you dump him or he dumps you and you find a new guy🤷🏼‍♀️ life is too short not to go for what you want

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  • imoglily

    There's no 'man's job' or 'women's job' if you like him just pop up. You met on a dating site so I doubt anyone would be displeased to hear from someone. You seem to like him a lot if you're thinking about him this much - if you message him and he doesn't reply you have your answer. :)

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    • Well I asked how he was and he's replying but I wish he would start the convo first sometimes. I feel like he was into me and now not so much. I wouldn't class myself as hot but he seems too. He's so good looking my type down to a tee. Just I'm so bad at getting to know people I need some
      Advice on how to without being too over bearing.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    It's not solely the man's job to start a conversation. Stuff like that is what makes someone lose interest. Take some initiative and start the conversation.

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    • I understand that but I always feel annoying when I start the convo. I like it when people come to me then I know they want to talk.
      When it gets to this point with a guy I usually just send a snapchat to get there attention, I don't actually say hi...

      I'm rubbish at this and just need a little advice tbh.
      So how long should I give it before I say something ? It's been 24 hours now. And what should I say?

      How much does a guy generally
      Message that is into you?

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      • Zorak

        -_- You already know my opinion on this matter. Rides space moo directly into the sun.

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      • anormalperson

        24hours? you should say hi

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  • Zorak

    You seem to be overthinking.

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  • EccentricWeird

    I'd guide you with my heart baby ;)

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    • I'm your worst nightmare >:)

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      • EccentricWeird

        Bob Dylan???

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        • Worse

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          • EccentricWeird

            Oh no... not.........

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            • .....?

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  • Jimbo24

    If he genuinely wants you (whether for a shag or as a gf) he'll initiate a conversation again and ask to meet you. If he doesn't in the next three days, move on.

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  • _ItsScience

    Take a walk, get your mind off things. That's what I do.

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  • tearsforspheres

    Hahahah wow the guy sounds like a WEIRDO and probably just wants to have sex with you. He sounds creepy

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