Does my bf care?

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I don't think my bf cares about me at all. He says he does butI don't believe him, I am always helping him and although he is there to cheer me up and listen and does nice things, but he would never do half the stuff I do for him, when I ask for a favour he comes up with excuses and sometimes I feel like there is another side to him I do not know about because he never calls me (I try to call him but it usually goes to voicemail so Iv given up).

Is he using me or am I paranoid. How do I know he cares ?

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Based on 41 votes (13 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Uhm if he never calls you or even picks up the phone when you call I'd say something is up. Don't get serious with this guy. Matter of fact get rid of him you deserve better.

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    I agree with all the people above me. Also maybe he's just not affectionate type of person. And if this is the case then talk to him. But it doesn't sound like he cares so dump him

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  • jas07
    13 years ago

    Um ya he's probably taking advantage of u. If u cater to him or r sleeping with him that could be one of the reasons to keep u around and he might feel like he doesn't have to respect u. Hold back a little and see if that helps and if not leave him maybe he will realize what he was doing... Or not either way u can't waist ur time on someone who doesn't make u happy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^

    That. Drop him like a burning hot potato and find someone who'll give an actual damn.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    <3 Adolf

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'd answer if you called me, Eva.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Tell him you want to bring another two men into bed, then he'll care

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You need to trust your feelings. If you feel he doesn't care enough - drop him & move on. Respect yourself. He's not the only fish in the sea.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Find someone who treats you exactly how you like to be treated.

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