Does my best friend likes me more than a friend?

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Ok. I have been trying to find reasons on the web about this. My bestfriend is a girl and so am I. We have been friends for more than 10 years and we treat each other like sisters. She's always been there for me when I needed her and I tried to be there as well. But,after an incident,I can't help but avoid her. My best friend kissed me on the lips and told me that she loved me. We normally say that to each other but when I said the same thing to her,she said that she meant more than that. She told me that after she kissed me. I was shocked after the kiss but I think that she thought that I felt the same thing. She kissed me again. This time,I pushed her away and slapped her. I guess that I slapped some sense into her because she started saying sorry. She's been trying to speak with me but i've avoided her all this time. Please tell me! I'm confused and I want to be friends with her again!

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  • bodiewangler
    13 years ago

    LukeX gave you the worst advice ever. Relationships with one way sexual tension never work out. I have been on both sides on the coin where I liked somebody more than a friend that didn't like me back and vice versa, and none of them lasted. Stick to friendships where you guys are on the same page and there are no alterior motives.

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  • razehavoc
    13 years ago

    Yes, she likes you. If she values your relationship she will be satisfied with whatever your decision is. However, it is very likely that she will always harbor some sort of hope.

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  • FreakyKing2
    12 years ago

    It's obvious she is either a closet bisexual or lesbian and she has a seemingly deep attraction to you. period.

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  • ilurvemyfriends
    13 years ago

    I talked with her and she said that I looked too adorable. She always treats me as if I'm a kid. She loves to dress me in clothings and I always have to run away. I asked her why she still kissed me but she won't answer. She had lots of BFs but she always dump them because she thinks that they're boring. She loves taking pics of me whenever I'm embarassed or something. My other bff,who is also treated the same way,says that it's sisterly love. She also says that we must consider about her being a BI.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    She wants you sexually, dear. If you are not of a similar mind and you want to restore your pre-kiss relationship with her, tell her. She will probably say that: she wants to, doesn't want to, can't, or something else dramatic. At any rate, I believe that you "can" restore your platonic friendship "if" you keep the lines of communication open. Help her find a girlfriend if you are not a homophobe. If she only wants you or if having a platonic lesbian girlfriend is out of the question for you, then let it go, wish her well, and pursue relationships henceforth that are in line with your way of thinking.

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    • ilurvemyfriends
      12 years ago

      You're right. Thanks for the advice. I'll do what you said.

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  • Nippon88
    12 years ago

    Aw~it's like my friends relationship~!! *coos adoringly* maybe...help her find her sexuality, or maybe try the relationship and see how it works out ^^ my two friends, bothe female by the way, are as good as married now, so good luck!

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    • ilurvemyfriends
      12 years ago

      Thanks ^^ we're back to normal now btw. Oh you're name is Nippon? Do you like Japan?

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  • MasterJohan
    13 years ago

    Like I told you before, be honest. Don't run away and avoid. Tell her straight that you JUST wanted to be friends with her... if it becomes too awkward, say something so that she'll change her way of "looking" at you, if you know what I mean.

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    • ilurvemyfriends
      13 years ago

      I can't do that. She's been my best friend for years. Like 9 years.

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  • supaflyafro
    13 years ago

    dont push her away and just try to0 be friends.if u get sick of thinking with ur head then think with ur heart

    btw my best friend of 6 years told he just started to get a crush on me but in a non sexual way. i called it a bromance

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  • lukex037
    13 years ago

    She probably does like you more than just a friend but that doesn't mean that you can't still be friends with her. Much like having a guy friend you just need to have a convo & make it clear that you love her as a friend & nothing more. If she really does care about you she will respect your boundries

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  • dimanche
    13 years ago

    If your best friends with her than just talk to her about it, if she admits feelings just say you love her to pieces as a friend and nothing more and get on with it

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  • paradoxinsoxs
    13 years ago

    Your friend is confused about her sexuality and as her friend you should try and be there for her. Explain to her that your feelings for her are not that kind of love, but you do love her and your there for her if she needs to talk, don't lose your best friend over a kiss.

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