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I lost my virginity recently and I am so convinced that I look different than I once have before. I feel like I'm ugly and gross looking. But when I look at old photos before I lost my virginity I look so different, innocent and a lot better than now ... I believe that it's cause I lost my virginity :((( am I goinging insane?!?!!
You regret losing your virginity. Feeling ugly and gross after such an intimate moment with someone isn't normal unless you weren't ready.
It's all in your head.....
losing your virginity does not alter your appearance...
Honey, if you did it because you wanted to and enjoyed it than you should look different all right. You should have a big smile on our face. On the other hand if you did it and didn't really want to and were pushed into it than you may look at your self a little different. The truth of the matter is You were beautiful before you had sex and you are still beautiful and always will be. All women are beautiful and have the most beautiful parts. Weather you are young or old short or tall large or small, you should be proud of being you. I have been with all types and sizes of girls and they all look and taste wonderful. What you do when your with someone is only your business and shouldn't change you one bit. hot mail johnnyrealle. Just enjoy being you.
"Split thinking" You must have valued being a virgin. Now your mind is split between what you did and what you feel you were supposed to do... In other words you are feeling guilty... My suggestion: If you feel you made a mistake, realize people make mistakes and move on - Try to be a good person and time will take care of the rest.
Real talk...I discovered masturbation in the shower when I was like 12. Leaving the bathroom after doing that, I had this overwhelming feeling that everybody in my family could see there was something different about me. I know exactly what you mean. It's all in your head though. I have children who have most likely masturbated in my house and I have no idea nor do I care.
Another weird thing...I got pregnant at 17 and I knew it right away. I can't explain it but I just knew the instant it happened and my mom came to pick me up the next morning and I was so sure she would be able to tell too. I am 38 now but I still remember that moment climbing into her car all self-conscious hoping she didn't say anything like it was yesterday. I have been pregnant subsequently but never once knew it right away like that or even felt like I looked different until later on after I had confirmed it by a test.
I think you are a bit overthinking things and on the other hand, maybe more in-tune with yourself than most and should take this as a lesson to listen to your gut but don't project your insightfulness onto others.
I swear that's all you panicking and freaking out about something that's not there. once you relax, everything will be alright.
no it doesnt.
its only if you THINK it does, then it might
in which case its only because you think you look different
you view virginity as innocent and special which is great :) cause not many people do
but it has nothing to do with your looks haha
With me it didn't and my Rgirlfriend it didn't either we both started having sex at 10 or 11 and have been doing it every day since then we started dating when we were 13 and started having sex within a week of meeting and going out we fuck everyday and I suck her titties and lick her pussy and she loves sucking my dick which she is very good at and does everyday at least 3 or 4 times sucking dick is her favorite thing to do at any given time she has at least 4 dicks in mouth and in her pussy on a regular basis we are both 18 now and both suck dick as often as we can I love walking in on her being fucked nice and hard in her pussy by one guy while she is sucking the other guys dick it makes my dick so hard and it makes her pussy so wet watch me suck one of our other boyfriends dicks
youre probably guilty for having seex, if it was in an inappropriate circumstance
Nope, but appearance does affect the ability or not to lose one's virginity.
Maybe you regret it and have a scowl on your mug now? I dunno. I regret losing mine to the statutory rapist that it was lost to.. That made me have a mean look on my face for a while..on top of my permanent bitch face. Harrumph.
It's most likely just persecution, go to a doctor if you are super worried.
Maybe you got a venerial disease? This doesnt seem normal. Secret is sex has nothing to do with innocence. Oh wow you knowhow sex feels now god must hate you. Not. Just pull out to avoid pregnancy