as to the swimsuit thing; yea just wait to your goal so you can get a swimsuit that really fits you nicely so you know itll look great rather than buy it before you achieve your goal. i work out a lot and im very fit and when i started dating my girlfriend she felt she wasnt good enough to compare to my body so she started working out also. ive always thought of her as a princess and amazing and didnt say anything like your boyfriend. she just decided to work out on her own. i think that he means well but hes just really awful with his words and bad with talking to girls.. i personally have hard workouts when im mad and this sounds like it bugs you a bit so learn to channeling the anger from this into working out therefore you arent as mad and you feel better about your body and he is physically more attracted to you. so get thin for yourself. not for him. maybe yall will get married and he will gain weight (a lot of guys once they marry and lock in a spouse start to gain weight because they know they for sure have a girl) and then give him a taste of his own medicine and bitch him out for the hypocrisy. he sounds awful at the whole talking to girls thing so maybe its just because hes an odd one.
Does he dislike my body or am I insecure?
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as to the swimsuit thing; yea just wait to your goal so you can get a swimsuit that really fits you nicely so you know itll look great rather than buy it before you achieve your goal. i work out a lot and im very fit and when i started dating my girlfriend she felt she wasnt good enough to compare to my body so she started working out also. ive always thought of her as a princess and amazing and didnt say anything like your boyfriend. she just decided to work out on her own. i think that he means well but hes just really awful with his words and bad with talking to girls.. i personally have hard workouts when im mad and this sounds like it bugs you a bit so learn to channeling the anger from this into working out therefore you arent as mad and you feel better about your body and he is physically more attracted to you. so get thin for yourself. not for him. maybe yall will get married and he will gain weight (a lot of guys once they marry and lock in a spouse start to gain weight because they know they for sure have a girl) and then give him a taste of his own medicine and bitch him out for the hypocrisy. he sounds awful at the whole talking to girls thing so maybe its just because hes an odd one.