Does he dislike my body or am I insecure?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    I think it's clear that he isn't happy with your body, but your personality compensates for your body, however he would still prefer you thinner.

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    • Sassypants
      9 years ago | pl

      That's kinda what I was thinking. I just don't understand how he can say he's attracted to me. I wouldn't want to marry someone if I thought they weren't attractive, his thinking just doesn't make sense to me.

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago | pl

        Well, maybe he is more voiced with his shallow views but you hold views that are more shallow but don't voice them as much.

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        • Sassypants
          9 years ago | pl

          How so? I only mean that I wouldn't marry someone I wasn't attracted to because I feel that attraction is important in a marriage. I definitely don't think having the perfect body or features makes someone attractive though, people are beautiful in their own unique ways. What I'm trying to say I guess is I don't understand is why he would want to marry me if is isn't attracted to me.

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          • [Old Memory]
            9 years ago | pl

            Because attraction isn't only physical. He believes your other characteristics (personality, etc) compensate for the body type he isn't all that interested in.

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