It sounds to me like he doesn't know what he wants. I think you'd be better off alone unless you're happy as just friends with benefits. Of course these feelings you've caught could always get worse please keep that in mind.
Yeah I have thought too. Him not knowing what he wants has driven me crazy. But as much as this whole thing meant to me, I'm going to finish it but on good terms. IF miracles exist, he'll swallow his pride or realize he wants to stay in touch w me and make more of an effort. With that, I would keep working it out with him but I'll know not put as much effort as i did before.
He actually said he doesn't know what he wants, a few times. I kept pushing it letting him know that were neutral right now and whatever you say won't affect me that much. But he still said he doesn't know what he wants and that he would want me to be his Gf but there are certain factors that's stopping him from pursuing us. The main one is we would be together but long distance and not that far but like 2 hrs away. He doesn't wanna do that and I told him to not worry bout me cause I'm willing to even tho ya who knows what can happen. Idk I wish I can read what he really feels instead of thinking twice bout how maybe he's just telling me what I want to hear no matter how much I push him to say the truth.
If you're find that you're willing to do just about anything and you gotta push somebody that you're diggin' on it's not a good thing. No one's worth that much trouble, believe me.
It's possible that he's just not that into you? Please try not to take what I'm sayin' personally, but you might be better off forgetting about him and moving on with your life. Love and respect yourself!
Does he care about me or no?
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It sounds to me like he doesn't know what he wants. I think you'd be better off alone unless you're happy as just friends with benefits. Of course these feelings you've caught could always get worse please keep that in mind.
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Yeah I have thought too. Him not knowing what he wants has driven me crazy. But as much as this whole thing meant to me, I'm going to finish it but on good terms. IF miracles exist, he'll swallow his pride or realize he wants to stay in touch w me and make more of an effort. With that, I would keep working it out with him but I'll know not put as much effort as i did before.
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I'm afraid that'd easier said than done, my friend.
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He actually said he doesn't know what he wants, a few times. I kept pushing it letting him know that were neutral right now and whatever you say won't affect me that much. But he still said he doesn't know what he wants and that he would want me to be his Gf but there are certain factors that's stopping him from pursuing us. The main one is we would be together but long distance and not that far but like 2 hrs away. He doesn't wanna do that and I told him to not worry bout me cause I'm willing to even tho ya who knows what can happen. Idk I wish I can read what he really feels instead of thinking twice bout how maybe he's just telling me what I want to hear no matter how much I push him to say the truth.
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If you're find that you're willing to do just about anything and you gotta push somebody that you're diggin' on it's not a good thing. No one's worth that much trouble, believe me.
It's possible that he's just not that into you? Please try not to take what I'm sayin' personally, but you might be better off forgetting about him and moving on with your life. Love and respect yourself!