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Just wondering.
There's a guy I like. We hooked up one night. I know he hooks up often and is into dominating women in the bedroom but I have no idea what he's like out of the bedroom.
He says he's reserved, quiet, nerdy and easy going. We went to dinner after the hookup a few days later and he did actually seem shy. But how can he be like that when in the bedroom he was a dom?
Some people are the opposite of what they are in the bedroom. I've watched my boyfriend at his job and he's a dominating person there, but with me, he's completely submissive. XD
That's not only possible, but fairly common, as are strong independent women who like to be submissive in the bedroom. All normal if it's consensual and safe.
I'm really shy and I am so scared of hurting people and being mean, yet I'm the dom for my girlfriend.
You've seen him both ways. If neither one is a turn off then go with it.
A lot of people are both, but whay someone is outside the bedroom has little to no correlation.
The thought of a sexually dominant nerd is so cringe inducing to me. Of course I don't appreciate anyone ever trying to assert dominance over me. I will never understand why some women like it. Yuck!
A sexually-dominant neckbeard who's into anime and My Little Pony, now there's a sight to behold.
Behind your questionably polite demeanor, there's a bit of eeriness. It seems likely you are a closet dominatrix. I give you credit for resisting the urge to lockup hot submissive males in your closet. Anyway, men are far less loyal than Andrew. Why complicate things?
Im a nerd, i was a dom and im completely shy out of the bedroom, moral of story: sex in not your ful life. its like asking: "Does a cop at work handcuff his children when they do something wrong?"
Yeah that’s perfectly normal. I know many people that like to dominate in the bedroom but are the complete opposite out of the bedroom and vice Versa. He just had a bit of a dark side; nothing wrong with that ;)
I'm a dominant guy in the bedroom, my boyfriend is more submissive. I'm still quite dominant outside of sex, I'm confident and assertive, and I strive to achieve what I want, but I'm still a chill, easy-going kinda person. He's also quite similar too myself in regular life as well. Not as dominant as me though, lmao, but still.
I am an equal consistant guy no matter where I am or who I am with.as long as i get to cum LOL
You didn't say how the hook-up went. Was he dominant in the BR? Did he guide you during the playing? As long as it was a safe playing for you, and you were satisfied, were there any problems?
I like to switch in the bedroom but financials should always be under my control. Idk what kind of decorations my partner does but that's my only stickler part.