Never going to marry. NeuroNeptunian pretty much said everything I had to say.
Far more risky for men to get married than for women.
I don't plan on putting myself in a position where a woman can take everything I worked hard for, while she done barely anything to get the things she is trying to take from me, then still be considered the asshole. I'm not going to let a woman do that to me by society allowing women to do such things to men.
Sorry to say, but I just don't trust women enough now.
I was told that there are ways that the pre nup could fail, and that the woman can still take everything you have some how. So no, I will chop the problems head off by the root and not marry at all.
I love how you assume the woman in your hypothetical relationship is basically a gold-digger housewife with no income. Don't you get to pick who you get involved with? She might make more money than you do. Ha ha!
I make that assumption because females are more likely to have a third party giving them money than males are, such as benefits.
Also, a female gold-digger has more of a chance of getting everything their partner worked for more than a male gold-digger.
Again... you get to choose who you want to be in a relationship with. So don't settle on a woman who will be financially dependent on you. Problem solved. It's not like this is a lottery!
And then say we want to start a family. One has to look after the child, and the man in the situation works. Then what? You can make assumptions on people you meet when you are on good terms with them, that doesn't mean they are incapable and won't do things for personal gain when the happiness fades, and then comes the divorce.
Here in the US, any decent lawyer can give you a pre-nup as air-tight as an old Volkswagon Bug. Divorce here is like... ehh, whatever. It became a lucrative business afterwards.
Most if not all pre-nups have a very limited statute of limitations on them. They dont last in perpetuity, most likely because courts now that the liklihood of a divorce happening is close to 50% and if a pre-nups exists lawyers wont be needed and the legal system wont generate money for itself.
The majority, I would say 80%, expire after 10 years. And I am not quite sure about the possibility of setting one up longer then that.
No, I don't think all women are. A lot of women can and will, and I believe it is much more likely to find a woman that wil take everything I worked for after a divorce rather than find a woman that wouldn't.
The point is that they "can" do it, and since they "can" so many have, and I am not going to risk it.
Sorry, but if women wanted me to think differently, they should of acted differently.
I blame society and women for this. Women can get away with it, and so they do it, but if society decided for that to stop, women couldn't do it.
When my husband gets his CPA and starts making an ACCOUNTANT'S salary, I am going to have him buy me a house and a brand new car. Once I have some good stocks and bonds bought off of his money, I am going to take his ass to court, take all he has got, and fucking leave him in the road with a sign that says "Will do accounting for toilet paper" because by the time I am through with this bitch, he won't have two pennies to wipe his ass with, let alone, rub together.
They do sometimes fail yes. I don't know. Maybe because they are still relatively new in the UK. And not many people actually use them either.
Many people don't even marry now anyway. Divorce rates are quite high. Can see why some people won't even bother risking it.
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Never going to marry. NeuroNeptunian pretty much said everything I had to say.
Far more risky for men to get married than for women.
I don't plan on putting myself in a position where a woman can take everything I worked hard for, while she done barely anything to get the things she is trying to take from me, then still be considered the asshole. I'm not going to let a woman do that to me by society allowing women to do such things to men.
Sorry to say, but I just don't trust women enough now.
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I agree with you.
Would you consider a pre nup?
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I was told that there are ways that the pre nup could fail, and that the woman can still take everything you have some how. So no, I will chop the problems head off by the root and not marry at all.
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I love how you assume the woman in your hypothetical relationship is basically a gold-digger housewife with no income. Don't you get to pick who you get involved with? She might make more money than you do. Ha ha!
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I make that assumption because females are more likely to have a third party giving them money than males are, such as benefits.
Also, a female gold-digger has more of a chance of getting everything their partner worked for more than a male gold-digger.
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Again... you get to choose who you want to be in a relationship with. So don't settle on a woman who will be financially dependent on you. Problem solved. It's not like this is a lottery!
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And then say we want to start a family. One has to look after the child, and the man in the situation works. Then what? You can make assumptions on people you meet when you are on good terms with them, that doesn't mean they are incapable and won't do things for personal gain when the happiness fades, and then comes the divorce.
Here in the US, any decent lawyer can give you a pre-nup as air-tight as an old Volkswagon Bug. Divorce here is like... ehh, whatever. It became a lucrative business afterwards.
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Most if not all pre-nups have a very limited statute of limitations on them. They dont last in perpetuity, most likely because courts now that the liklihood of a divorce happening is close to 50% and if a pre-nups exists lawyers wont be needed and the legal system wont generate money for itself.
The majority, I would say 80%, expire after 10 years. And I am not quite sure about the possibility of setting one up longer then that.
I understand your point of view but you're assuming that all women are money-minded.
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No, I don't think all women are. A lot of women can and will, and I believe it is much more likely to find a woman that wil take everything I worked for after a divorce rather than find a woman that wouldn't.
The point is that they "can" do it, and since they "can" so many have, and I am not going to risk it.
Sorry, but if women wanted me to think differently, they should of acted differently.
I blame society and women for this. Women can get away with it, and so they do it, but if society decided for that to stop, women couldn't do it.
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Exactly.
When my husband gets his CPA and starts making an ACCOUNTANT'S salary, I am going to have him buy me a house and a brand new car. Once I have some good stocks and bonds bought off of his money, I am going to take his ass to court, take all he has got, and fucking leave him in the road with a sign that says "Will do accounting for toilet paper" because by the time I am through with this bitch, he won't have two pennies to wipe his ass with, let alone, rub together.
I'm super cereal.
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Super cereal, you guyz.
Oh now I understand more clearly your point of view
They do sometimes fail yes. I don't know. Maybe because they are still relatively new in the UK. And not many people actually use them either.
Many people don't even marry now anyway. Divorce rates are quite high. Can see why some people won't even bother risking it.