I really would still like to comment even though Neuro basically hit the nail directly on the head.
Being a man, and being a man with assets that probably wouldnt be protected entering into a marriage I am VERY reluctant to get married. Thats not to say I am totally against marriage, but I think for many people marriage today isnt what it was 40-50 yrs ago. There is no stigma on divorce, if you get upset with your spouse, just call a lawyer, there is probably one around the corner from you. And because of this there is no incentive to work through problems that arise in the relationship/marriage, the mentality today seems to be if it aint working then cut your losses and move on. Which isnt what marriage is supposed to be at all.
Its also difficult in being a man when "cutting losses" because on average the man makes out worse in a divorce ruling then a woman does. And that is always compounded more when children are involved.
At the very least men should be immensely cautious about who they marry, and if bringing any sort of assets into it should get some sort of pre-nup just for their own protection.
Do you want to marry? (for guys)
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I really would still like to comment even though Neuro basically hit the nail directly on the head.
Being a man, and being a man with assets that probably wouldnt be protected entering into a marriage I am VERY reluctant to get married. Thats not to say I am totally against marriage, but I think for many people marriage today isnt what it was 40-50 yrs ago. There is no stigma on divorce, if you get upset with your spouse, just call a lawyer, there is probably one around the corner from you. And because of this there is no incentive to work through problems that arise in the relationship/marriage, the mentality today seems to be if it aint working then cut your losses and move on. Which isnt what marriage is supposed to be at all.
Its also difficult in being a man when "cutting losses" because on average the man makes out worse in a divorce ruling then a woman does. And that is always compounded more when children are involved.
At the very least men should be immensely cautious about who they marry, and if bringing any sort of assets into it should get some sort of pre-nup just for their own protection.