Do you think the guy will take me back

if you guys have been following my story (the 20 yr old dating the 28 yr old) do you think he will forgive me for what i did? we haven’t talked much today and a couple hours ago i said “goodnight i love you” and he didn’t respond and so i texted again and said “are you okay? i’m really sorry for what i did. you have the patience of a saint and i really hope you can forgive me” and he said “i’m doing my best. i love you sleep tight”

do you think he will forgive me? i feel really badly about this and i keep doing it but he keeps giving me chances. he just is so upset with me and is having doubt... idk what i should do

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  • Girl why are you in a relationship if you don't even trust the man? Nah, that's invasion of privacy and shows how immature you are. Stop saying you love him, you're coming across clingy and desperate.

    If anything leave him be and if he feels your worth it, he'll come back.

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    • he’s done much worse to me though. he’s gone to massage parlors to get a happy ending, he “accidentally called a escort”, he’s emotionally abused me, calling me: cunt, bitch, moron, psycho, useless etc, and choked me once and was sent to jail. he’s also, living off his parentd money, is still in school and doesn’t have a job. he’s 28.

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      • Wow, what redeeming qualities does he have that make you stay? These are all pretty serious things, and I honestly don't know why you want to stay so badly. He is not only untrustworthy and irresponsible, but he's also abusive. Seriously ask yourself what it is about him you think is worth it.

        This relationship is doing you absolutely no favors and this guy is dangerous. Seriously, leave him.

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      • What you have, battered woman syndrome? This site has too much foolery lmaooo.

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  • What did you do?

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    • lied about going on his phone (even tho i didn’t really) then the next day deleted a snap from a girl on his phone

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      • Stop snooping and lying. If it bothers you this much just stop doing what’s causing the harm. Gotta move past it and improve not let it keep happening then improvements can’t happen.

        Aside from that he hasn’t ghosted you and even says he loves you. Idk the situation well beside what I just read but doesn’t sound like it’s ending super shitty. Just stop worrying what may happen and show improvement by not lying and shit. If you truly have a problem of lying and snooping and can’t trust him enough to be honest maybe it wouldn’t hurt to take some time and figure out what you truly want.

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        • so should i just ignore him until he texts me and asks me to come over? you think he will take me back? he has a history of abuse emotionally and once physically. and he always threatens to break up and always takes me back

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          • You’re hooked on him and terrified at the thought what if he doesn’t take you back. Yet he’s abusive to you. I’ve had to deal with abusive shit that’s really fucked with my head too. You can’t be truly happy dealing with someone like that. Ik you want him to take you in and show you he cares but you know it’ll be temporary till he hurts you again. Over and over he’s not going to change. You deserve better noone should have to go through the mind fuck of dealing with someone toxic. Being put through so much harm when you can be much happier with someone treating you right. All the good things you may see in him can be in someone else who can truly be the one to make you feel happy. Noone should ever call you names or physically harm you. I take it you’re probably the one who’s family called the cops? In that case ik you won’t take advice but you’re over here wanting it. You already just from this post seem wrapped around him but you can find someone else and someone who is going to treat you right. Probably with his words he makes you feel like you deserve him and will never have better? Like you need to crawl back to him because he’s all you got. When you do have people trying to help you. He ain’t shit doesn't even have anything going for him. Idk if you’re trolling or doing this for attention or what but you make it obvious you put out all the bad he does you know you see it. Just leave.

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      • Either stop snooping, and messing with his stuff, or leave him, and go find someone who doesn't make you insanely jealous.

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