You make a good point, but let me clarify something. I was talking about a hypothetical situation in which I was involved. If I was getting to know a woman and she wanted to have sex right away (which by the way, has always happened to me so far) I'd think less of her in terms of what I'm looking for (again, this is what's always happened to me so far). But I didn't mean it like, if she did it with someone else I'd pass judgement or anything. It doesn't matter to me, and believe me, I've had my share of slutty friends and I didn't pass judgement then.
Oh, I see. But this whole thing is the most ridiculous double standard ever. Its like men are expected and allowed to screw whoever they want whenever they want but if a girl does it she's automatically a whore. It drives me nuts.
I know it is. What I'm saying is: if I'm getting to know a woman and she's willing to have sex right away before things get the slightest meaning, then what value does sharing that experience with her have to me? Hardly any.
Of course, a woman could say the same thing about a man. I think the difference is that women have already accepted it as a fact and settle for men not caring about the value of sex, they try to look beyond this because they believe it's inevitable. Men (some of them, at least) don't.
Do you think less of a woman who has sex with you on the first date?
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You make a good point, but let me clarify something. I was talking about a hypothetical situation in which I was involved. If I was getting to know a woman and she wanted to have sex right away (which by the way, has always happened to me so far) I'd think less of her in terms of what I'm looking for (again, this is what's always happened to me so far). But I didn't mean it like, if she did it with someone else I'd pass judgement or anything. It doesn't matter to me, and believe me, I've had my share of slutty friends and I didn't pass judgement then.
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Oh, I see. But this whole thing is the most ridiculous double standard ever. Its like men are expected and allowed to screw whoever they want whenever they want but if a girl does it she's automatically a whore. It drives me nuts.
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I know it is. What I'm saying is: if I'm getting to know a woman and she's willing to have sex right away before things get the slightest meaning, then what value does sharing that experience with her have to me? Hardly any.
Of course, a woman could say the same thing about a man. I think the difference is that women have already accepted it as a fact and settle for men not caring about the value of sex, they try to look beyond this because they believe it's inevitable. Men (some of them, at least) don't.
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Yah it's well known most men are wart hogs :)