Why though? I don't get it. I've seen many times guys flirting with girls and persuading them to have sex, then the girl finally agrees and they do it. As soon as they're done they go around calling the girl a slut. What did you expect her to do? Do you wanted her to reject you? I don't get this logic. If it wasn't for those called "sluts" most guys wouldn't have any sexual experience. It's completely irrational to expect guys to have a lot of sex and expect girls not to. Who are the (straight) guys supposed to be having sex with then?
All I said was I'd think less of a woman who did that. Any coherent person who felt this way would not be persuading unknown women to have sex with him right away. I am one, so I don't. Those that do what you are saying are plain idiots, don't bother trying to find some logic behind that. I'm sure there's lot's of them. But don't ask me to explain their behavior.
It's the same as the stereotypical woman who says she wants a well behaved man who respects her but in the end is only attracted to those that treat her badly. It's just idiotic people not knowing what they want (or unwilling to admit what they want), nothing more.
You make a good point, but let me clarify something. I was talking about a hypothetical situation in which I was involved. If I was getting to know a woman and she wanted to have sex right away (which by the way, has always happened to me so far) I'd think less of her in terms of what I'm looking for (again, this is what's always happened to me so far). But I didn't mean it like, if she did it with someone else I'd pass judgement or anything. It doesn't matter to me, and believe me, I've had my share of slutty friends and I didn't pass judgement then.
Oh, I see. But this whole thing is the most ridiculous double standard ever. Its like men are expected and allowed to screw whoever they want whenever they want but if a girl does it she's automatically a whore. It drives me nuts.
I know it is. What I'm saying is: if I'm getting to know a woman and she's willing to have sex right away before things get the slightest meaning, then what value does sharing that experience with her have to me? Hardly any.
Of course, a woman could say the same thing about a man. I think the difference is that women have already accepted it as a fact and settle for men not caring about the value of sex, they try to look beyond this because they believe it's inevitable. Men (some of them, at least) don't.
Do you think less of a woman who has sex with you on the first date?
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I'm a man and I'd think less of her because of that.
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Why though? I don't get it. I've seen many times guys flirting with girls and persuading them to have sex, then the girl finally agrees and they do it. As soon as they're done they go around calling the girl a slut. What did you expect her to do? Do you wanted her to reject you? I don't get this logic. If it wasn't for those called "sluts" most guys wouldn't have any sexual experience. It's completely irrational to expect guys to have a lot of sex and expect girls not to. Who are the (straight) guys supposed to be having sex with then?
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You hit the nail on the head; pretty much summed up the how dumb slut shaming is.
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that's right! shaming dumb sluts is just wrong, man
All I said was I'd think less of a woman who did that. Any coherent person who felt this way would not be persuading unknown women to have sex with him right away. I am one, so I don't. Those that do what you are saying are plain idiots, don't bother trying to find some logic behind that. I'm sure there's lot's of them. But don't ask me to explain their behavior.
It's the same as the stereotypical woman who says she wants a well behaved man who respects her but in the end is only attracted to those that treat her badly. It's just idiotic people not knowing what they want (or unwilling to admit what they want), nothing more.
Its ok for the guy though?
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You make a good point, but let me clarify something. I was talking about a hypothetical situation in which I was involved. If I was getting to know a woman and she wanted to have sex right away (which by the way, has always happened to me so far) I'd think less of her in terms of what I'm looking for (again, this is what's always happened to me so far). But I didn't mean it like, if she did it with someone else I'd pass judgement or anything. It doesn't matter to me, and believe me, I've had my share of slutty friends and I didn't pass judgement then.
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Oh, I see. But this whole thing is the most ridiculous double standard ever. Its like men are expected and allowed to screw whoever they want whenever they want but if a girl does it she's automatically a whore. It drives me nuts.
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I know it is. What I'm saying is: if I'm getting to know a woman and she's willing to have sex right away before things get the slightest meaning, then what value does sharing that experience with her have to me? Hardly any.
Of course, a woman could say the same thing about a man. I think the difference is that women have already accepted it as a fact and settle for men not caring about the value of sex, they try to look beyond this because they believe it's inevitable. Men (some of them, at least) don't.
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Yah it's well known most men are wart hogs :)