It's unfortunate you fell for the trap , I knew what following information was coming when you mentioned him asking . I don't think there is anything wrong with you saying you would accept , it's not like you are begging him every day to have one , you simply said if he asked for one would you consider participating in it . He sort of pushed you towards the answer really .... I can understand a little of where his emotions are coming from by putting a large value on just the two of you and not wanting to share it but he shouldn't be asking questions to things he doesn't want the answer to basically . I think he should have left it alone and not tried to trick you into saying something he wouldn't be pleased with ... what was the point of asking if he never intended on taking it serious you have to ask?
You're right. I knew he would judge me, the whole conversation was much bigger than what I wrote here, but basically he insisted until I said that I would accept. Sometimes it seems he's trying to giving me reasons to make me feel bad about myself. He said he already knew the answer (because he knows how open mind I am) and I asked him what was the point of asking if he already knew, so he said he had a small hope. He also said his answer would be always a NO because he would never have sex with another person and he don't understand how can I even consider it.
I could see how it might be some kind of test, but more than anything it seems like a dick move, especially if he forced you into it. He doesn't have a right to be angry at you or blame you. Don't be afraid to put him in his place. To be quite honest, us guys need that sometimes.
It seems to me he has things he needs to work out with himself and not with you . He has this insecurity and trust issue from what I got out of it all ... I am not sure why he was so adamant on getting you to say yes and also he makes no sense because he says he doesn't understand how you could consider , you only considered because he asked? I could see if you asked him and he said no and explained himself then you continued to ask anyways but that isn't the case here , he clearly asked and pushed you into the convo . I think he needs to be clear on what he wants and what type of woman he wants while also figuring whatever the hell is going on with him out because this could be a real cause for concern I would hate to see some nonsense like this ruin your relationship down the road and then even more times wasted . You don't want the girl to answer .. don't ask pal .
Do you think is wrong that I consider having a threesome?
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It's unfortunate you fell for the trap , I knew what following information was coming when you mentioned him asking . I don't think there is anything wrong with you saying you would accept , it's not like you are begging him every day to have one , you simply said if he asked for one would you consider participating in it . He sort of pushed you towards the answer really .... I can understand a little of where his emotions are coming from by putting a large value on just the two of you and not wanting to share it but he shouldn't be asking questions to things he doesn't want the answer to basically . I think he should have left it alone and not tried to trick you into saying something he wouldn't be pleased with ... what was the point of asking if he never intended on taking it serious you have to ask?
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You're right. I knew he would judge me, the whole conversation was much bigger than what I wrote here, but basically he insisted until I said that I would accept. Sometimes it seems he's trying to giving me reasons to make me feel bad about myself. He said he already knew the answer (because he knows how open mind I am) and I asked him what was the point of asking if he already knew, so he said he had a small hope. He also said his answer would be always a NO because he would never have sex with another person and he don't understand how can I even consider it.
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I could see how it might be some kind of test, but more than anything it seems like a dick move, especially if he forced you into it. He doesn't have a right to be angry at you or blame you. Don't be afraid to put him in his place. To be quite honest, us guys need that sometimes.
It seems to me he has things he needs to work out with himself and not with you . He has this insecurity and trust issue from what I got out of it all ... I am not sure why he was so adamant on getting you to say yes and also he makes no sense because he says he doesn't understand how you could consider , you only considered because he asked? I could see if you asked him and he said no and explained himself then you continued to ask anyways but that isn't the case here , he clearly asked and pushed you into the convo . I think he needs to be clear on what he wants and what type of woman he wants while also figuring whatever the hell is going on with him out because this could be a real cause for concern I would hate to see some nonsense like this ruin your relationship down the road and then even more times wasted . You don't want the girl to answer .. don't ask pal .