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I've had a hard time with blood family recently, and im wondering if anyone thought that there may be a way for someone who is anti-social and extremely depressed and have a super low self-esteem could find anybody who would be there for them and be okay with someone having problems out of their or anyone's control.
I had an abusive family and nobody cares. I made sure I move out as soon as I could and I am very happy. I don't think you can find someone who is there for you unless that's a great partner or friend, but usually it takes years to find and establish strong relationships that could possibly replace a good family. You had bad luck, but many of us do so that's it. I recommend trying to get rid of the toxic environment as soon as you can, making sure you construct your way out of it carefully and you minimise the damage.
Try looking around your area. Ive been thinking the same thing. Maybe try to get someone to love you by being sweet or cute. Buy the neighbors cookies or flowers, offer free hugs, wear fuzzy clothes that look cuddly. I don't know. Just try different things and something might work.
They key to finding people is to be yourself. You have to show the real you, the vulnerable side. Everyone has one. Unless we let our guards down and show the world, no one will find us, and no one will know the real you.
There is a family for everyone Cinnamom.
Yes, I am all of those things and so is my girlfriend. We found each other and are now family. It can happen!! Have faith, reach out. What do you honestly have to lose??