Do you straight up tell this to a guy?

I've been seeing comments where guys say women fake orgasms bla bla bla . . Do men just prefer to be told straight up that they did nothing.. It's crazier cz that's usually the point they ask you how it was. Lol .. Do men prefer honest opinions about their sex game? .. It's confusing ..

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Comments ( 27 )
  • JustAegis

    Yes, please, be honest. The truth is always better. I mean, if you keep lying, how are we gonna get better?

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  • Zieten

    Definitely be honest in your relationship. If you're not getting satisfaction from sex, it will lead to frustration and could ruin your relationship. Speak openly so he can learn to make it feel better.

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  • kla631

    Yes, be honest. It will help him improve.

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  • _Jesus_

    I never understood how somebody can't tell if they were good or bad. There are so many signs. During, you can feel it happen if you pay attention. After, when she can't walk because of jelly legs, you know shit went down. Atheists are the easiest. When all you hear is "omg omg omg" during it all, you know fo damn sure you did it because you just converted a mothafucka

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    • cutegalsly

      Lol... The atheist part is funny.. I think we all be like OmG if it's that good...

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  • RoseIsabella

    I don't see the point in faking orgasm.

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  • Curious-trans

    Personally if im doing terrible i would like to know, i prefer straight up honesty over everything i dont care if it would insult me to core id rather get told straight up then not know.

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  • justforthought

    I don't fake orgasms, seems like alot of trouble to go through for nothing....

    if you give me one you will freaking KNOW

    if you do not give me one, you will cum and have to ask me if it was good or not... and at that point i will say that it felt good. cause it prolly did, but if you have to ask... you prolly didn't give her one.

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  • Cheet0

    Yes; be honest please... Lying is a terrible female habit

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    • justforthought

      Cheeto Lying is a terrible HUMAN habit...sexist....

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      • Cheet0

        I just feel that when females do so, it is more hurtful, as has been proven with past experiences... No mean to be sexist necessarily

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  • Thorolf

    Tell him what to do better.

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  • Kookulainamus

    I would prefer to know I did nothing. When women fake it, I lose my touch very quickly. If I did nothing, I need to know that what I did didn't work. Faking sabotages good sex for both you and your partner. SEX is what counts, not EGO.

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  • mrbrownfinger

    Give instructions on what gets you off, it will actually get him off as well.

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  • Handyman

    I would prefer to know, or be told what would work.

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  • nobodyspecial

    Never lie about orgasms, tell us if you came or not

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  • loveass

    as long as i get off iam not worried about her

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  • NeilYounger

    Yes.

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  • mysistersshadow

    LOL.

    Men want to hear they were the best you ever had. If the sex was good or they weren't insecure they wouldn't need to ask. If they aren't doing something right show them how you like it. And if they do it right make sure to make it obvious you enjoyed it. Don't just lay there silent and have starfish sex... participate.

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    • Kookulainamus

      If your profile pic is really you, not a clip photo, you are too young to know what older men want to hear. The most wonderful thing I have heard is this, "In case things don't work out between us, I will show you sexual techniques that work on me. You can add this to your repertoire to please a wider variety of women."

      Older women are smarter than you. Saying that grabs a guy's heart in a snap.

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      • mysistersshadow

        And how would you know anything about the guys I've been with? I've found the best match for me is guys about 10 years older this may change as I get older we'll see but I found this out by being with a wide age range of guys.

        If you had read my posts here you would know I've given at least my share of lessons to guys about how to be better in bed.

        Grabbing a guys heart is the least of my concern. How to get rid of obsessive guys that think there in love with me after 1 date is the problem I deal with.

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        • Kookulainamus

          Getting rid of guys is a skill set for younger women. Cougars don't have this problem. Keep doing your abdominal crunches, eat like a butterfly, and you'll get there.

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          • mysistersshadow

            Get where? I'm not a cougar by any stretch.

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            • Kookulainamus

              Someday you will be and you will have different opinions on men and the world of sex.

              It's a good idea to be a hot chick while you can be. Later in your life, you can branch out into nude beaches, emotional warmth, sex on airplanes and stuff.

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