Do you have to remind someone of what they did drunk?

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If someone got hammered and slept with someone, or did something crazy, or kissed someone, are you obligated to tell them what they did if they don't remember?

A friend of mine and I got shitfaced and made out, we're both guys, it was probably the worst makeout session I've ever had because we were so drunk and I kept swallowing slobber. Plus it was with a guy, not my style. I remember it fully, he doesn't remember a single thing. Also, we both have girlfriends. Should I remind him of what happened? Or just let it go and never talk about it again.

Yes, always. 4
Yes, only if you're involved. 0
Yes, if it was a big deal. 3
No, you don't have to, but you should. 2
No. Just leave it be. 7
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  • Whatintarnation
    7 years ago

    If I got so drunk that I made out with a dude, I wouldn't wanna remember either. I'd have to bleach my tongue

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  • dirtybirdy
    7 years ago

    I get blackout drunk more often than I'd like to admit. Not really lately, but plenty of times in the past. I never remembered anything :/

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  • wigz
    7 years ago

    Ignorance is bliss. If no harm was done, it's probably only going to be embarrassing to hear about the drunken shenanigans. But if they got sexually assaulted or robbed or something like that then you should probably speak up.

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  • Jellypop
    7 years ago

    Don't tell him. If he's 100% straight, things would probably be awkward between you guys if you were to tell him... There's also a chance that he remembers, but he's too embarrassed to say anything.

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  • CrystalMethodist
    7 years ago

    See how many times you can bang him drunk before he catches on

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