Do you ever look at your parents and think......
Mum/Dad is way out of Dad/Mums league?
I cant help but think this as I get older. After discovering pickup and loads of self development books, as a son, I cant help but feel like my dad settled for my mum......but could've done wayyyyyyy better.(I still love her)
I remember as a young child visiting my godfather and always could sense, that he didn't really like my mum too much, and always wondered why.
But comparing MUM to DAD, I find it TOOO easy to see the areas in personality my dad has worked on and developed while my mother still- lacks friendly/calm communication skills, not with just me but strangers. This aint just off the cuff either, I went through some of my dads old photo albums from when he used to go clubbing, and he always had REALLY attractive girls on his arms. But when I saw a pic of my mum- she was CONSIDERABLY less attractive than them.........(HE met my mum when out clubbing btw) I even remember at Wireless Festival I was talking to a group of girls - they saw my dad n said - Ohh Maa Gawwd is that your Dad!?!?Hes soooo Hot. (bearing in mind hes 50 odd and they were HOT girls not fat albinos.lol)
Imma keep it soooo real right now with this next statement. My mum looked like a girl - who would have had to give it up easy to my father for him to take her - put it lightly - she was an ugly 19/20 yr old. No need to lie cuz i can be honest with myself. Not only that - she let herself go ALOTTTTTT. Whereas my dad whose only a few years younger has been going gym weekly since I was a small child, and is huge as fuck. esp for 50 odd yrs old. He may not be growing much anymore, but its easy to tell when talking to them that my dad has definately worked on communication skills, attracting women, fitness and health, and most IMPORTANTLY his psychology. I can tell becuz he dropped out of school b4 my mum and has much higher awareness/consciousness. SO it only figures he worked on this outside of school.
I dunno, maybe I'm an asshole. But even my dad has said to my mum in arguments "sometimes I wonder why I married you" because she can be unpleasant to be around. Im 20 now, and sometimes cant help but agree with that statement. My mum is like a more miserable, less desirable 25 year old. She feels entitled to my dads care and love, and (lifts to places) and she can be a real DICK to him at times. I truly believe had me and my little sister not been born - my dad would have divorced her, and left her for a much hotter woman. I even wonder sometimes if I was the result of accidental pregnancy and my mum basically trapped my dad. hmmm
Wat about you guys n galls?
Ever had the thought that ur Mum or Dad is out of their partners league? (Step-parents dont count becuz ur prob biased against them)