Do you care if your s.o. masturbates?

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Do you care if your spouse or significant other masturbates? If not, is there a point of "too much" for it to happen? Do you think it's healthy and helpful to the relationship? Or do you feel it takes away from it?

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  • flawdagirl
    9 years ago | pl

    Seeing a guy masturbate is a def turn on.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    That seems quite a ridiculous thing to get upset about. It's actually unhealthy to get upset about something like this. If I had a girlfriend get upset over this I would kick her out in an instant. Why would anyone put up with this type of jealousy?

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    • RainbowDischarge
      9 years ago | pl

      My boyfriend has been putting up with it for almost 5 years. I must be doing something that compensates.

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  • dom180
    9 years ago | pl

    My ex-girlfriend sometimes masturbated with me as a part of foreplay. That was fun. I think masturbating is healthy and it's attractive to be open sexually. So long as it doesn't reduce your sexual appetite, then it's good.

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  • Gspyder
    9 years ago | pl

    If someone thought they had the authority to tell me what I can and can't do with my own body they would be too controlling for me anyway

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  • anti-hero
    9 years ago | pl

    I wish she would do it more.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago | pl

    Personally I wouldn't care if he masturbates.

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  • RainbowDischarge
    9 years ago | pl

    I realize it's healthy and normal but I still get jelly and feel insecure about it. That isn't normal. C'mon man, I lick your penis and give myself to you everyday, every night. Im like his personal asian porn star. Am I still not satisfying?! Irrational thinking is a bitch.

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