That's exactly it. Why did you need to write "Maybe I'm an idiot and I don't understand the nuances of your minimalist commentary." ?
I usually don't mesh with a type of people that are over emotive, generally considered to have good social skills and be sociable, and unfortunately, jump to conclusions.
Sometimes I am a bit cruel, and a bit oblivious in what I say. I'm not trying to be offensive, but I can be. It's been suggested that I have aspearger's. Only suggested, not proven.
I did see the main message. I thought it was a bit touching. What he said was contrary to what I have seen and experienced people to be and do. I want to believe he is different. I want to learn why. I can't though, if I have to walk on eggshells, and constantly worry about offending somebody.
The internet is a poor medium for communication. But I can see how it has been speculated that you might have aspearger's. My response would have been different if you had said
*I think* you misunderstand me
Telling someone that they don't understand something is not the right way to go about a discussion.
But now I can clearly see that there was no harm intended. I have friends with aspergers, it has always taken me a while to warm up to your type, after all we are opposites when it comes to interpersonal relationships/communication....The internet is a poor medium for communication.
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That's exactly it. Why did you need to write "Maybe I'm an idiot and I don't understand the nuances of your minimalist commentary." ?
I usually don't mesh with a type of people that are over emotive, generally considered to have good social skills and be sociable, and unfortunately, jump to conclusions.
Sometimes I am a bit cruel, and a bit oblivious in what I say. I'm not trying to be offensive, but I can be. It's been suggested that I have aspearger's. Only suggested, not proven.
I did see the main message. I thought it was a bit touching. What he said was contrary to what I have seen and experienced people to be and do. I want to believe he is different. I want to learn why. I can't though, if I have to walk on eggshells, and constantly worry about offending somebody.
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The internet is a poor medium for communication. But I can see how it has been speculated that you might have aspearger's. My response would have been different if you had said
*I think* you misunderstand me
Telling someone that they don't understand something is not the right way to go about a discussion.
But now I can clearly see that there was no harm intended. I have friends with aspergers, it has always taken me a while to warm up to your type, after all we are opposites when it comes to interpersonal relationships/communication....The internet is a poor medium for communication.