It's an asshole move/thing to say. If someone was actually concerned about your health they'd at least take you aside in private. I think people who feel the need to do such things are trying to feel better about themselves by putting someone else down.
It's dumb that she told you that you should have told her if it hurt you.... you DID tell her. If someone does that to you again shame them... say in front of everyone "do you REALLY believe that was appropriate to say to me in public?" The person will be shamed/shocked and slink back.
Do some people really think its okay to comment on someone weight gain
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It's an asshole move/thing to say. If someone was actually concerned about your health they'd at least take you aside in private. I think people who feel the need to do such things are trying to feel better about themselves by putting someone else down.
It's dumb that she told you that you should have told her if it hurt you.... you DID tell her. If someone does that to you again shame them... say in front of everyone "do you REALLY believe that was appropriate to say to me in public?" The person will be shamed/shocked and slink back.