Do other people feel the urge to have sex when they feel hurt ?

ive great difficulty being emotionally available.. ive found thay when i try to date i get let down alot, which doesnt help. when i feel let down i have super strong urges to sleep with someone.. im quite capable of have sex without emotions its how ive lived for years, but now im really trying to have relationships based on more thsn sex every little disapointment makes me feel i need to sleep with someone.. usually not the person im upset over.. im not sure if its like s revenge thing or maybe self sabotage.. who knows. feel like sex is my natutsl response to disapointment

Is It Normal?
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  • Sex makes me feel closer

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  • Having sex just reassures you.
    That you are attractive.
    Totally normal.
    Whoever flaked off and didn't date you.
    Their loss.

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  • Totally normal. I have sex when I get let down too. Sad thing is, lately my hand has been letting me down, which means I need more sex (with my hand), and so the circle goes.

    This is making me depressed. I need to have sex with my hand again now.

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    • Picture a glove. Is it a leather glove or a rubber glove? What is even going on?

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      • Always leather, and if you don't know what's going on you shouldn't be here. ;)

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