Do not want it with my bf

I have been with my bf for over a year and we've had intercorse, but lately I just dont want to do it with him anymore and sometimes I don't know why. I still like him because I want to kiss him and hug him etc, I just dont want sex.

Is this a symptom of depression because I have been feeling low lately, or does it mean there are issues in the relationship?

Is It Normal?
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  • i want sex from my man.

    or his hand.

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  • Idk, I think that this is normal for a woman. Or at least every one I've ever spoken with that has had a long term relationship... Lust wears out and you let your body's instincts control your feelings... And women don't want it all the time like men do. Logically, we are most fertile once a month... so that's when our bodies tell us to want it. Buutt, maybe you need to spice it up a little to bring the lust back.

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  • or you got pregnant and don't know it yet >:)

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  • the fact that you used the word like instead of love says it all.

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  • Its ok that u dont feel like sex but u should still do it with a grin on your face as its rude to deprive ur boyfriend of it. just remember its u not him. good luck

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  • depression is most likely,if not pregnancy, or sickness, have u lost interest in other things besides sex. you'll get over it

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  • You're too young to "not want it".
    You can still love your man, but not feel attracted to him.
    It happens to people all of the time.
    Go out and have a great sexual time now because one day, you'll end up married.

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  • I dunno if I could have sex once a day I'd be very happy lol. My sex drive doesn't really die down.

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  • Yeah that's not a good thing. Especially if you only just "like" him after a year. You should talk to him about it or break things off so you don't waste eachothers time anymore.

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  • Are you on the pill? Because the same thing happened to me with my ex when I was on it.... Got fat too. Or you might not like him that much. It's a pretty huge warning sign

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