Do men not use their brains to realise that most "hot" women

Have a mask on? For the love of GOD! Why do men think most women are born hot or attractive? I have a family member who dresses to the extreme of being classed as a mini Kardashian you could say. High maintenance sort of thing and yet men will always flock to such a women because they think wow shes beautiful and that's her permanent appearance. Little do most know, it's all a facade. Wait until bed time and make up comes off, along with all excessories.
I know some ladies who look completely different after all make up comes off as well as putting them in some basic hill billy clothes.
Why doesn't this bother guys? Surely some see how unattractive or plain jane she looks later on and then dumps her

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  • Men are biologically programmed to be attracted to the healthiest child bearing able women. That involves hips, breasts, and a symetrical face.

    Some women color their faces, enhance their breasts and butts to appear more desirable. Quality men seek and find naturally desirable women.

    There is a significant amount of men that no women will have sex with and that leads to women competing heavily for the desirable men.

    We will have sex with a made up, fake bodied chick but we won't breed her. Atleast not high quality men won't.

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  • Yes, I prefer girls who wear minimal make up.

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  • Is this a new thing? I feel old (30's), but in my experience most men have been attracted to women who look natural (minimal make-up) & healthy (in shape)...maybe i'm out of touch, but i assumed this was still what was considered attractive...

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    • I dont know but in my opinion, a lot of men go for appearance which usually results in how good a lady looks.
      Men will always go for the bomb shell most of the time anyways, little do they realise the process a women goes through to get to that stage. Lol

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      • Idk if you're a man or a woman?

        I think this goes away a bit as you get older. I'm not super old yet haha, but i have thouroughly enjoyed my "i give a fuck" meter going way, way, way down & i have noticed that the men i've dated as i got a bit older were very much less appearance focused & paid more attention to character, but of course that's not universal.

        Anyways, i've dated a bunch. People who are gorge w/ no depth don't fare well. It only takes a certain amount of time before the other party realizes that there is nothing to be had. Men (& women) are people, and most of them aren't looking for a simple minded fuckdoll of a human being, and whilst it may seem like that sometimes, that is not usually the way it is.

        It's fucking fantastic that you don't focus on that & define yourself based on looks. It's temporal, doesn't last, & defining your self worth based on how you look will always lead to feelings of worthlessness as you age.

        Focus instead on who you are, what you experience, what you've read, the places you've travelled. Feel fucking awesome & you'll find someone who likes that...that'll last longer than someone who likes...contouring??

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  • I don't overly care. So long as she dolls herself up to look good then that's good enough for me.

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      • It aint my fault you're jealous of your family member. Men care about women who make an effort.

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        • Why would I be jealous? What's to be jealous of? No men care about what looks good which is a facade so they live in an illusion

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          • It's somewhat of a facade, but the whole thing is on looks, and it passes the look test temporarily.

            I'm not trying to be a dick with this, but what's particularly upset you. Is it that men are more shallow than women in regards to being attracted to physical appearance?

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  • You sound like someone who doesn't take care of themselves.

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    • Did I say I was a fake women

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  • The kind of guys who aren't able to see past all the fakery are probably not the kind of guys that you want to go out with. There are plenty of guys out there who aren't into that sort of thing and you'd probably be more suited to them. The world is full of different sorts, we don't all have to like the same stuff.

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  • There are guys who care and some who don’t. I am lucky my boyfriend doesn’t really care that much but I still dress up most days and the days I don’t, he is cool with that too!

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  • If we smash a few times, I dont care if you have a mask on. That's just kinky.

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  • My wife doesnt wear makeup and shes still hot

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  • I thought about how women wear makeup pretty recently and I have a personal theory....

    Unless it’s overkill where you can clearly see it, a lot of guys (myself included) don’t really realize the extent that make up makes a girl more attractive because we don’t use it ourselves and don’t pick up on all the facial embellishments. If that makes sense...

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    • Kinda but not really cause as a guy I still can tell when one uses make up, its obvious to tell plus you can guarantee if she looks Amazing like a mini Kardashian its obvious

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      • I might be projecting, I just feel like I can’t personally realize the subtleties of make up until it comes off.

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  • People always say that the female gender is better-looking, which is false. Without makeup, guys are actually the better-looking gender, generally speaking. Women tend to look a lot more " bland " and " watered-down " somehow. No, I'm not homosexual.

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    • usually in the animal kingdom males are the more flashier "pretty version" while females are more plain looking.

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      • Well, that seems to be the case in humans too. Without makeup, the female gender is a lot more bland than the male gender.

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    • Yes actually I had that realization the other day. A guy rolls outta bed looking same as he went to bed, just sleepy faced. A women wakes up, hair can be a mess, she can look a wreck as no make up on and hair out of whack. I realised I think if hes a good looking guy then hes good looking naturally so lucky him . Why do men date women then when it's all a facade?

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      • Many guys don't seem to realize the extent to in which makeup conceals your true appearance. And also, I think many guys are too busy staring at tits to care about how her face looks.

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        • Weird, tits were designed for the purpose of breast feeding tho

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  • That's why I disapprove of contouring, I knew this one absoloutly hideous girl, now she wpuld of been at least pretty on the inside if it wasn't for her deception games. She wpuld contour to the point of looking like a ten, I dont care attraction is a basic human element so these guys see a girl who's thete type to suddenly bam doesn't look like the same person at all. She was always saying she was depressed cayse men kept leaving her and I'm like yea I wonder why sherlock

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    • Whats a contour?

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      • Darkening or lightening different parts of your face to make them seem shaped different. Under cheek bones. People do their noses... it's bizarre.

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        • Yes I know someone like this

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        • It's definitely bizarre. I remember back when I was a bridesmaid for my sister's wedding. We were required to wear makeup and had to pay someone to doll us up professionally. I'm 30 and look 15, but with contouring I wound up looking uglier and much older than 30. Lol

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      • Basically it makes ugly girls beautiful. Till it comes off

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  • Men are programmed to mate with pretty much any woman who is willing to give up the goods. While a man would prefer something attractive (whether it is fake or natural), he is not going to reject a piece of ass unless the woman is particularly ugly.

    IN cases where he dates or goes home with someone who gets made up to perfection for a date but then when it all comes off she is back to "plain Jane" looking, that does tend to disappoint. It is like an "8" left the room to change, but a "5" stepped out. Like, where did the hot woman go?

    Men do realize it is an illusion but mostly don't care.

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    • Pretty much, wich is why i dont intend to ever wear much makeup. I already have a penis alienating me from most men I like i dont need deception on top of it

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      • In TG case though, unless we are extra lucky or had serious surgery, a little makeup helps us "pass". Younger ones can often get away with not using any but the older we get...

        I know some TG who live full time but don't even try to look like a woman and then wonder why they are not taken serious.

        I am of the thought though that pretty much any woman will look better with makeup.

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        • A little makeup is ok, I'm talking about heavy users. I've known a few like that, it's just awkward really. I like the natural look usually but makeup does provide a nice boost w times

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    • That's so strange they like to live a delusion, they are delusional

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