Do i tell her?

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I really need some help here...there's this amazing girl that I really like, my friend went out with her 3 years ago. They kept breaking up and getting back together then they finally broke up for good my friend always was a dick and saying she was fat and all these dick headed things about her and I hated I even told him to stop and we even got in a fight (he punched me and broke his hand,that was the fight) this girl though is loves him but doesn't no about any of this now they are going back out and she seems really happy but I hate to see her with someone who doesn't deserve her..I really need to know what to do I keep on almost telling her but I don't know if I should...please help me.

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  • Yamaguchi
    13 years ago | pl

    Sounds remarkably like the Twilight Saga.

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  • imacomputer
    12 years ago | pl

    well i realize this post is pretty old........so...OP....give us an update! You probably found someone better right???

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  • bleach_baby
    13 years ago | pl

    It's not for you to decide who does or does not deserve her. If she is happy with your friend, leave it.

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  • softball
    13 years ago | pl

    Well depending on your age. Like if you 14-16 I would just wait it prob won't last for ever. And tell her how u feel. It seems you care more about her than your friend so just tell her that u like her or love her or whatever and tell her you deserve someone who respects you and would never tell you those thing and im a female and if a guy told me that i would prob b w him instead of the other guy or wait for them to break up again and make your move.
    Good luck hope it works out for ya

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  • 17laxer
    11 years ago | pl

    I would tell her that the guys bad. I would hate it if someone didnt tell me that. Dont try to break apart the relationship, just tell her. The guy clearly has no respect for girls if he is gonna call her fat. IF you do tell her she will probably he upset, but atleast let het know before any other fighs happen.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Tell her!

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  • RainbowSheep
    13 years ago | pl

    Tell her he said that, but try to do it objectively (harder said than done, I'm sure). If I were her I'd want to know. But you have to let her decide what to do for herself.

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  • nikkay22
    13 years ago | pl

    The guy is obviously not even your friend if he punches you like that. If you tell the girl, she probably won't believe you and she needs to find out on her own. She would think you are just telling her those things cuz you want her for yourself. I say move on from both of them!

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  • ~L~
    13 years ago | pl

    Knock your friend out and then have sex with the girl on his back. I saw it on family guy just now and I thought I'd waste your time by suggesting it here. Good luck with the fatty.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Umm I think ushould tell her but in a very random way as in ur talkin n it jut came out in a normal way as in lyk no big deal that way u won't hurt her feelings...
    Dude ima a gal trust me I no hw much she will get hurt if she fynds out her self....
    So I think u should tell her in anyway u think is ryt!!!...she's ur friends I'm sure u no her better!!!...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Thanks softball

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