Do i sound like a stalker?

A few months ago I was at a food market
and while the bag boy was doing his job,
he has some small chat with me.

He says he also liked a certain show I did.
( I'm afraid to say what show it is
due to the fear of getting rude comments.)

Anyway, the next time I went there,
he walks up to me and starts to talk to some.
I was a bit surprised he remembered me.
( Me and him seem to be both shy.)

After I left, I felt a since of compassion.
Butterflies in my stomach and what not.

Now, everytime I go to the food store,
I am always looking for him
and honestly, I feel like he is the closest
thing I have to a real life friend,
but I desire a relationship also.

Is this considered creepy?

Yes, you need help.	2
Kinda creepy.	7
No, it's just a crush.	79
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[Old Memory]

11 years ago

I agree with Missy, you don't sound like a stalker - you just seem interested. So, to avoid regret, approach him the next time you see him. Ask if he'd like to hang out with you during his next break at work.

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LafayetteX

11 years ago

Normal. And extremely cute. I'm not saying he likes you, but if he came up to you and he's shy, that's a great sign.
Stalking is waiting for him to get off his shift, following him home and climbing into his window to watch him as he sleeps. Pft. I'm guessing you haven't done that yet, right? Then you're normal.

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anti-hero

11 years ago

Why do you
write your stories
and your replies
in lyric form?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  It's become obvious that people think my writing form is either poemy or as you put it, lyric like.
  Honestly, I just thought it's easier to read,
  but since it's so annoying, I'll just write in huge walls of text! Is that better?
  
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  - anti-hero
    
    11 years ago
    
    No. Normal will be fine. You know sentences, paragraphs and the like.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      I honestly don't see the problem with how I write.
      I know it isn't exactly professional ,
      but it's much better than how some other people
      write on the internet.
      
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      - anti-hero
        
        11 years ago
        
        I agree with you on that.
        
        I was just asking why you did it. I didn't say it was a problem.
        
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        8 years ago
        
        Sorry, I bumped the thumbs down button by mistake. My fingers are too big for this damned cell ph and sometimes I hit the wrong putton.
        
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Agappe

11 years ago

Aww this is so cute. I got the EEEEEE! from reading it. You must ask him for coffee or for his number!

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shakalaka

11 years ago

I think that is cute.

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ccjigsaw

11 years ago

I used to choose speific hallways, and pass certain classrooms back in highschool so I could pass my crush. We were shy to :P Make eye contact, smile, face to the floor lol It's innocent. You're not a stalker

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Agappe

11 years ago

Two words...body language. http://youtu.be/SBOtj1RmaUE

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dirtytalk

11 years ago

it depends, if u are both the same gender then yes it is very creepy u need help unless u mean just as a friend not love

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  I'm sorry, but what does it matter
  if we were both the same gender?
  It's the same principal, yes?
  
  In fact, I am not even
  going to tell what gender I am now.
  
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kingofcarrotflowers

11 years ago

Not creepy. I think it's nice.

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MissyLeyneous

11 years ago

Next time you see him you could offer him your number?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Well, it's kinda complicated.
  I asked him if he had a Facebook
  and he told me he deleted it due to stress.
  
  Like I also mentioned, we're both fairly shy
  and I don't even know if he likes me all that much.
  To him, I just might be a friendly person
  who shares a common interest and nothing more.
  
  A lot of the time when I go into the store,
  he's not even there,
  so I don't really get a lot of chances to talk to him.
  
  But, I'll work on it.
  
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  - MissyLeyneous
    
    11 years ago
    
    It'll be fine, if it was meant to be, then it will be.
    
    By the way, I like the way you post, it feels like a poem. ^_^
    
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Flaze

11 years ago

You sound like you have Asperger's syndrome. If you do, then it's quite normal for you to look for him everytime you go to the store.

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KeddersPrincess

11 years ago

No. You don't sound at all like me my freshmen year in high school.

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- Millie_the_evil_saint
  
  11 years ago
  
  And how were you in your freshman year in high school? ;-)
  
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  - KeddersPrincess
    
    11 years ago
    
    Haha:D No. I was a depressed kid who sat in the corner all day long writing in my journal about death, hatred, and sadness while I put death wishes on a boy that I followed around because he refused to return his love to me.
    
    Teenage me was not someone you wanted to be around.
    
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    - Millie_the_evil_saint
      
      11 years ago
      
      O_O ...I get it...
      
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      - KeddersPrincess
        
        11 years ago
        
        Lol. No worries. I've grown from that stage :D
        
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Terence_the_viking

11 years ago

Yes you do.

Have a nice day.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  I wish you would give me
  some reason WHY you think I sound like a stalker.
  Not trying to sound rude or anything.
  
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  - Terence_the_viking
    
    11 years ago
    
    It's because of what you wrote up there in your question.
    
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    - MissyLeyneous
      
      11 years ago
      
      No they don't... stalking sort of infers that the person doing the stalking DOESN'T want to get "caught". This person WANTS to meet his/her crush face to face, so I'd say that'snot stalking.
      
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      - Terence_the_viking
        
        11 years ago
        
        Yeah i would.
        
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        MissyLeyneous
        
        11 years ago
        
        But stalkers don't want to be caught.
        
        So, that makes no sense...? :/
        
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