Do i need help

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Hello everyone, as i have made known before i have a few mental issues, i was recently diagnosed with anti-social-personality-disorder and i am schizophrenic. recently a "friend" brought something to my attention, according to her i am extremely cold and cruel to other people and violent, she was expressing her concern that i didn't feel bad after getting into fights or after stealing, and for the past 3 years i have smoked pot regularly everyday and she never liked it but honestly i don't care, i have also been drinking to the point where i wake up at a friends house and not remember the past 8 hours and i see nothing wrong with this but she normally tells me i need help and that i am destroying myself, i have been doing pretty much anything to get high or drunk and i have been alot more homicidal lately, and she is at the point where she wants to call the cops and get me arrested and i dont know what to do

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  • TexasToast09
    7 years ago

    If someone who you call your a friend is telling you that you are destroying yourself and that they want to call the cops on you, it should be a sign to yourself that you need help, even if you don't care.

    You should get help. You mentioned that you were diagnosed, which means you have talked with a professional. You should tell them about your situation, and if not them, someone else who can help you.

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  • HappyGreenHills
    7 years ago

    I'm sure you're going to get tired of hearing this response but-- please listen to your friend and seek some kind of assistance. If she's concerned about you, she wants better for you.

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  • belle12345
    7 years ago

    Hey, your going to be okay, I have depression and I am trying to see through everything. Nobody expects you to be this oerfect human being. But ask youself is this what you really want to do? Instead of getting high. Ger the hell out where you are and go do something (that won't yourself killed) Be wild. I can tell by this that you are someone that just wants to be free. Get help and be wild

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ytMqO-WQpQ4

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    • 2CuriousGeorge2
      6 years ago

      You don't have to ask or worry about if it's normal. It's a situation you are in, and it does happen. But the important thing is that you do seek help to get out of this. Because drinking to that extent and mixing pot with your meds is all just going to hurt you more and more. And in the heat of the moment you'll want to use those same things to hide from your pain, but hours later you'll just be in a deeper hole. And I am not judging you at all for that. We all want to find something to help whatever pain we're dealing with. But you matter too much for this to consume your life and be your life story or possibly even end your life far too early. The first step is very hard. But once you ask for help you will have it, and people will be on your side with a plan to help you. I'll be praying for you. You can come out of this!

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    You need MOAR antipsychotics. Are you taking your pills? Stay off pot, it is known to cause psychotic breaks.

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    • RoseIsabella
      7 years ago

      Precisely! Pot is hella bad for psychos, but so is alcohol. Maybe it sounds harsh and unfair, but your response is spot on! OP probably won't like the truth, but too bad so sad.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    I second karmasAbich's comment - you need HELP asap

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  • Paws
    7 years ago

    cool story bro

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  • Amandaqaws12
    7 years ago

    why are you telling us this? tbh tho

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  • Justmehere
    7 years ago

    Ease up, or stop, the drinking..Alcohol is a depressant, and will only make your mood worse. My ex-wife was a rabid, raging alcoholic and became too much to deal with. Hotel stays b/c she was too drunk to drive home (supposedly), DUI, hit a parked car and drove off (hit and run), knocked over an elderly woman with her car because she didn't see her crossing the street, broke a cabinet door (which I made her fix..I didn't touch it), and bunch of other stuff. All because she drank her face off and didn't remember half the shit she did.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Listen to your friend, you're lucky to even have any friends at all. Honestly, a person who gets into fights and steals doesn't deserve to have any friends. More than likely what you deserve is to be thrown in jail. You should be grateful for this friend of yours, honestly you should be kissing her feet and worshipping the ground she walks on, but please don't try to date her. You are a very seriously fucked up person who ought not to be dating anyone, because from the sound of things you probably just hurt and take advantage of everyone you know. I feel if you have an ounce of decency within yourself you would quit drinkin and smoking pot, make sure to always take your psychiatric medication and go to therapy. You are not normal and need help.

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    • dankfuck
      7 years ago

      You should give people who are at risk friendly advice instead of degrading them and calling them "a very seriously fucked up person". Telling them negative stuff is just going to make it alot worse for them. Maybe if you had an ounce of decency within yourself you would stop harrassing mentally ill people.

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      • 2CuriousGeorge2
        6 years ago

        Thank you! I wrote a similar reply before I saw this one. I'm glad someone else called them out on it too.

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Mental illness does not entitle people to use drugs, steal and get into fights. There's no excuse for criminal behavior, ever.

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        • whoknowsman
          6 years ago

          I agree

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          • whoknowsman
            6 years ago

            These are my actions and I don't blame them on any substance

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        • 2CuriousGeorge2
          6 years ago

          Sometimes people with mental illness don't realize that what they're doing is wrong or why wrong is wrong. Their brain is wired different. Yes what they did is still wrong, but be careful in how you approach them and don't be so quick to judge.

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    • 2CuriousGeorge2
      6 years ago

      Ease up. Yes he's in trouble, but he's confused and asking for help. He's still a human who is just in a rough spot. Encourage him about what to do without telling him how awful he is; he's not awful. He's hurting and confused.

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  • Thatirishguy
    7 years ago

    I been down this road before , to be honest man the best thing is if you want to drink and get high do it on the weekends , i lost friends my family , my girlfriend over the same reason when i was your age , i would spend atleast $200 on pot a week and $150 on drink a week , my liver and heart is fucked, prove to your friend your better than what she sees you ass cause i might not knoe you but i believe yoy can be a better person :)

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  • karmasAbich
    7 years ago

    You need help.

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