on the one hand, I can see why someone would me mad at being lied to like that, but in the same token, I can see why someone who is transgender would lie about that. Society pretty much forces them to lie, trans people are ostracized worse than most criminals. It seems murderers and con men get better treatment than them. as for me, if I ever found out a woman was dating used to be a man, I would be surprized at first,and at the moment feel a little decieved, but as soon as I remember why she was compelled to lie, I would apoligise, and continue on.
Do I have the grounds to dump my boyfriend coz of this?
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on the one hand, I can see why someone would me mad at being lied to like that, but in the same token, I can see why someone who is transgender would lie about that. Society pretty much forces them to lie, trans people are ostracized worse than most criminals. It seems murderers and con men get better treatment than them. as for me, if I ever found out a woman was dating used to be a man, I would be surprized at first,and at the moment feel a little decieved, but as soon as I remember why she was compelled to lie, I would apoligise, and continue on.