This chickenshit attitude about avoiding "getting involved," is so puerile. Who the fuck cares if people think you're a "narc?" Put yourselves in the shoes of the person being betrayed and honestly ask yourself, "Would I want to be told?" There you have your answer. It's called empathy, and it's sorely lacking in this world, in good part thanks to passive attitudes like I see in here.
All that evil requires to prevail is for good people to look the other way.
In part I agree with you. The thing is, I believe she has a right to know, however there is proof all over if you wanted to know. You don't even have to dig deep to suspect and then uncover any lies.
I do put myself in others shoes constantly. And you know, just like on cheaters, you can tell someone of infidelity and they don't want to believe it, so they create in their mind that you are making it up for some selfish ulterior motive. And I don't even know this woman, have never talked to her. How much validity is my meddling going to hold.
Would I want someone to tell me? They wouldn't have to. I'd know and do some digging. I don't feel that anyone should owe me information on my relationship. I don't want them involved in any other area of my relationship.
Of course. I set the example. People tell me all the time they assume me to pretty much be a lady, so they don't talk or do anything unbecoming. Hense the normal question. The thing is I respect others way of living even in contrast to mine. That's why I would go to many denominations of churches to show my support to friends. I don't ask them to conform unless they ask or need
Do I have an obligation to say something about a mans infidelity?
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If I were being cheated on, I'd want to be told.
This chickenshit attitude about avoiding "getting involved," is so puerile. Who the fuck cares if people think you're a "narc?" Put yourselves in the shoes of the person being betrayed and honestly ask yourself, "Would I want to be told?" There you have your answer. It's called empathy, and it's sorely lacking in this world, in good part thanks to passive attitudes like I see in here.
All that evil requires to prevail is for good people to look the other way.
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In part I agree with you. The thing is, I believe she has a right to know, however there is proof all over if you wanted to know. You don't even have to dig deep to suspect and then uncover any lies.
I do put myself in others shoes constantly. And you know, just like on cheaters, you can tell someone of infidelity and they don't want to believe it, so they create in their mind that you are making it up for some selfish ulterior motive. And I don't even know this woman, have never talked to her. How much validity is my meddling going to hold.
Would I want someone to tell me? They wouldn't have to. I'd know and do some digging. I don't feel that anyone should owe me information on my relationship. I don't want them involved in any other area of my relationship.
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Perhaps you're more observant and intuitive than average. It should go without saying, we're not all wired the same.
I do understand what you mean though. The ability of the human psyche to ignore or deny the truth right before us is often astounding.
That doesn't mean we should be apathetic to doing the right thing.
It's great that you consistently try to put yourself in the shoes of others. :) Do you encourage others to do the same?
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Of course. I set the example. People tell me all the time they assume me to pretty much be a lady, so they don't talk or do anything unbecoming. Hense the normal question. The thing is I respect others way of living even in contrast to mine. That's why I would go to many denominations of churches to show my support to friends. I don't ask them to conform unless they ask or need