Do guys like the woman to make the effort ?
Seriously I'm the worst of the worst at speaking especially to men.
Never had a boyfriend and recently joined a dating site, an odd one will come through that I really like but I don't know if it's me that ruins it because I begin to like them then realise that when they don't message back or after a few days if they haven't replied and I make myself known and maybe it's pushed them away.
But I have found a lad who thinks I'm good looking and me him. It was a fun convo at first but he has stopped replying. I'm doing things differently by keeping it to the dating app. And not double messaging if he doesn't reply but honestly it's hard. Do guys like the girls making the effort ?
I think he either doesn't check or is busy but if other girls are messaging and I'm not I'll be at the bottom of the list and if he doesn't see me he might not reply... so when is it acceptable to say hey again?
Or what can I say without seeming desperate but getting to know him?