Do guys like girls to make the move ?

I’m not used to this dating malarkey. But I don’t have many friends and thought it was time to start finding someone. I’m pretty reserved and I’m a country girl. I met up with this ladwho I got on so well with online.... I’ve spoke to a lot of people online but we just clicked... we met up after a few weeks and it was so good. The only issue is he’s 50 mins away and it doesn’t bother me but it bothered him after the 3rd date like how we’d make it work... we spoke it out and now we are on our 9th date today... well I’m going to see him. The last couple of times he’s only just started putting his arm around me... but me being the shy girl I am didn’t hug into him or anything... now I’m beating myself up about it... do guys like girls to make a move? Like just grab his hand.
I feel like my anxiety is going to fuck this up. He has a lot of mates he’s a city boy... and he went out with them last night and barely text me... yet all I want to do is message him... speak to him spend time with him... but it could just be my mind fucking with me which is why I’m asking you lovely lot.... idk why I get weird... I feel like he’s making me second best. Going out all night and rolling in at 5am... shouldn’t he be wanting to see me more? Or do I have to be the forward one?? He compliments me and such. Says things that give me reassurance. We are only meeting every Saturday at the mo until last week were we met in the week too...
But he goes to work then to the gym... and when he’s with me his mates are always asking them out and I get off handed like alright go with them... like right now I’m feeling off handed because I feel like he doesn’t like me or he’s going to bin me. And yes I’m starting to like him so I’m scared....

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  • lordofopinions

    Speaking as a guy I love it when the woman makes the first move unless she is a prostitute.

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  • Ellenna

    I reckon you're a lot keener than he is: 50 minutes isn't too far if you like someone, unless he's walking it.

    You don't really know each other that well: slow down and see what happens, don't text so often.

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    • lordofopinions

      They don't really know each other? After nine dates? They should be wearing out the sheets by now.

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    • I just have no one else when he’s not here... also he has loads of friends always messaging him.. just bothers me

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  • BigTiddyGothGfPls

    Have sex with him and take it from there

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