Do guys ever want to be just friends

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I like this guy and we are good friends, I want to ask him out, but I'm worries he's gonna just wanna be friends, I'm fine with his, but I dont want it to be awkward, what he best way to approach the subject

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago | pl

    He don't wanna be just friends unless #1 his gay or #2 he already has a boo or a crush that his after. Most times when guys say I just want to ve friends meaning.... They aren't gay. They are just lying so they can sniff around.

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  • Murun
    6 years ago | pl

    Go for it. It won't be awkward.

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    • llllll6
      6 years ago | pl

      Its fine if he wants to be friends I just don't want it to be awkward after

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  • charli.m
    6 years ago | pl

    Some can't do platonic. Avoid them. There are plenty of men who understand and excel at being decent human beings.

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    • The_Great_Flatuloso
      6 years ago | pl

      It's not a question of being a decent human being, it's more a question of being used for your resources if you're a man. If you're a firm believer in "gender equality" (as I am) it can make for a confusing set of circumstances.

      You may now commence with the down voting.

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      • youwillgotohell
        6 years ago | pl

        Try harder.

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        • The_Great_Flatuloso
          6 years ago | pl

          Gender equality isn't something that will happen overnight. It takes years for a movement to accomplish goals.

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          • youwillgotohell
            6 years ago | pl

            Oh stfu and go suck a gutter pipe. Who the fuck do you think you are going to fool with that horrible acting of yours? You been getting so many downvotes that you are now trying to swing for the other party? How low and shamless of you...just plain pathetic. Get your act together!

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    • llllll6
      6 years ago | pl

      Its fine if he wants to be friends I just don't want it to be awkward after

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      • charli.m
        6 years ago | pl

        I'm a retard, I only really went by your title, not your text. I'm sorry.

        I guess you've just got to see how it pans out. How well do you know him?

        I can't brain today. I can't work out how to get the words to work. Ugh. Sorry. I'll fuck off.

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        • dweeb
          6 years ago | pl

          Remarkable candor. Thank you, Mel. Maybe you're not so bad after all.

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        • llllll6
          6 years ago | pl

          Its fine, were pretty close, he gave me his jacket when I was a cold about month ago which is why j thought he might like me back

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  • Nastynate
    6 years ago | pl

    In my experience unless they are attracted solely to the opposite gender as you and if they're hanging around they're interested in more. Simple really

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    • llllll6
      6 years ago | pl

      Its fine if he wants to be friends I just don't want it to be awkward after

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago | pl

    Seriously though cause I'm kinda like a lezzie but a hoe too, and when I've told guys I'm thinking we should end this friendship because I'm starting to think your pursuing it for more than friends the ones that really liked me were like Nah man no way, I really want to be your friend I mean it that's all I want. Other cunts who just wanna get some pussy just like aight cool I'm gone then and cool cause those dudes were bigger hoes than me.

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  • pizzabrowniesushi
    6 years ago | pl

    Watch when harry met sally or American pie.We want to have fun spoil you and fuck you in a good way not be your friend or deal with a bunch of drama.

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  • KevinP
    6 years ago | pl

    I've never wanted to be just friends...
    My wife was under the illusion that she had a friend like that before we got married, tried to convice her he wanted to be more, she didn't believe me.. after we got married he for some "unknown" reason stopped talking to her.. I wonder why.. {sarcastic, just for the oblivious}

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    • UnabashedUser
      6 years ago | pl

      Yep if there's no sex involved or the chance of it, I'm GONE. Too many fish in the sea.

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  • UnabashedUser
    6 years ago | pl

    It's a hormone thing. Men want it and if they don't get it they're gone. If the man in question is testosterone deficient then he may hang around listening to showtunes, pleating his pants, making lace doilies, and reading liberal poets, doing his nails. But he'll never make a pass at you

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    • llllll6
      6 years ago | pl

      Its fine if he wants to be friends I just don't want it to be awkward after

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